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A person in sunglasses takes a selfie on a city street, with text overlaying the image that reads: 'try out this breakup healing cheat-sheet to get over your ex'.
A cheat sheet titled 'DEALING WITH LONELINESS: 101' lists emotional regulation techniques, journal prompts, and self-care activities like cooking, taking a bath, or going to a museum.
A cheat sheet titled 'feel like texting your ex?' provides questions to consider before contacting an ex, suggestions for emotional relief, and affirmations for independence during a breakup.
healing cheat-sheet to get over your ex
after being a breakup coach for a year and a half now, I compiled a cheat-sheet of all the essential things needed to start getting over your ex. it covers some of the most important steps like, emotional regulation, journaling, spending time with yourself, how to avoid texting your ex and maintain
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evelyn

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A woman with a green headband and long dark hair looks directly at the camera with a serious expression, with text overlay "ways my body rejected my ex" in green and red.
A split image shows a woman's face "before" (left, smiling) and "after" (right, looking directly at the camera), illustrating "moonface" with text explaining it's due to stress-induced cortisol.
A woman sits on the floor, taking a mirror selfie, showing her stomach, with text indicating "bloating" and describing it as looking pregnant.
ways my BODY rejected my ex 🚫
when you’re with someone who’s not right for you, your body WILL let you know!! the body is highly intelligent, and has one goal - to keep you safe!! 🫶 it gives us warning signs that it’s distressed and not at ease, which can be a very helpful signal when we’re mentally in denial, or even just
carley ◡̈

carley ◡̈

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5 things I do differently when I revise before exa
5 things I do differently when I revise before exams that actually work ✏️🔥 #studytok #revisiontips #examprep #studysmarter #collegelife 5 things I do differently when I revise before exams that actually work. Forget re-reading notes for hours. These are the 5 things I actually do
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Emily

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These back excersises will snatch your waist
Save this video,if you’re having trouble finding the right excerises to get a smaller back this video is for you!My back results does not lie! #fyp #gym #weightlosstips #motivation #plussize
Fitness life

Fitness life

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5 Tips to not get overwhelmed when studying 🙇🏻‍♀️
1. Set timers for tasks: if you have multiple assignments or multiple things to study from (books, lectures, notecards) you need to schedule 45mins - 1 hr for each task and you will get it all done and now smash things in you can even do it in cycles 🔁 2. Take breaks : a little social media bre
Alexis Sanchez

Alexis Sanchez

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A person in child's pose on a yoga mat, with a black cat on a windowsill near plants in the background. Overlay text reads "self care for when you're feeling...".
A bouquet of red and yellow flowers on a wooden table next to a lit candle. Overlay text lists self-care tips for feeling "anxious," including positive distraction and practicing mindfulness.
A person lying face down on a rug, with a large mirror reflecting a ceiling fan in the background. Overlay text lists self-care tips for feeling "overwhelmed," such as taking deep breaths and prioritizing.
self care for when you’re feeling: _____
this is your self care checklist for those days when you’re feeling funky 🤍🤍🤍 🌷 overwhelmed ☑ take big deep breaths ☑ pause ☑ prioritize ☑ write it down ☑ name your feelings ☑ ask for help 🌷 anxious ☑ positive distraction ☑ have compassion for yourself ☑ verbalize your feelings ☑
carley ◡̈

carley ◡̈

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These 5 glute exercises will get you thick FAST!
These excersizes transformed me within 6 months, And i don’t regret staying consistent! MAKE SURE YOU EAT PROTEIN!!! 😌 #glutetransformation #summerbod #bodytransformation #gym
maya! 🎧

maya! 🎧

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A woman with curly hair and glasses in a black top stands outdoors, with a red overlay stating "5 Signs Your Partner Will Absolutely Become ABUSIVE SWIPE."
A woman with curly hair and glasses in a black top stands outdoors, with text overlays "If They Yell In Your Face" and "This is a for sure sign they will hit you in the future."
A woman with curly hair and glasses in a black top stands outdoors, with text overlays "If They Have Abused Past Partners" and a warning about believing past partners' claims.
Signs Your PartnerWill Absolutely Become ABUSIVE
Often, physical abuse doesn’t come out of nowhere—it builds up through patterns of control, intimidation, and disrespect. So I’m dropping some warning signs that a partner may become physically abusive! These are not beige flags, they’re red flags! #lemon8contest #AskLemon8
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L a n a i s Li 🧚🏽‍♀️

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if u got made accounts i will not exsept them
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Jason Wagoner

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A chat between 'ME' and 'MRTONYSTARK12' discussing continuing their conversation, with 'ME' suggesting they could talk about anything, even sexually, and 'MRTONYSTARK12' asking why 'ME' changed their mind.
A chat screenshot showing a conversation between 'ME' and 'MRTONYSTARK12' about continuing to talk, with 'ME' offering to discuss anything, including sexual topics, and 'MRTONYSTARK12' asking about 'ME''s change of mind. The keyboard is visible.
A chat between 'ME' and 'MRTONYSTARK12' where 'ME' explains not wanting to stop talking, leaving the decision to 'MRTONYSTARK12,' who then asks if 'ME' is their 'good girl.'
Ex messages
Old messages from my ex
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Young Boss

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A glass jar labeled "LOVE 100%" filled with colorful rolled-up paper messages, with a cork lid beside it. The image is overlaid with text "Gifts that will KEEP HIM FOREVER!".
A glass jar labeled "LOVE 100%" filled with colorful rolled-up paper messages, with a cork lid beside it. The image is overlaid with text "LOVE JAR" and a description of its purpose.
A green film roll keychain with a silver ring, presented in an open brown gift box decorated with a yellow sunflower. The image is overlaid with text "FILM ROLL KEYCHAIN" and a description.
THESE GIFT IDEAS WILL KEEP HIM FOREVER...
Hey, girl! 💖 We all know the struggle—what do you get for the man who seems to have everything? Whether you’re aiming for "I’m the best girlfriend ever" status or casually dropping hints that you’re totally wifey material, I’ve got you covered. Here are some killer gift ideas that will have
Lushie Club 💖

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10 Micro Habits that will change your life 🎧✨
Micro-habits are small, simple actions that, when done consistently, can lead to significant improvements in your wellness. These tiny changes can transform your life by building momentum and fostering positive behaviours without feeling overwhelming. These are 10 micro-habits that you can a
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mindofieva

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A person in bed looking at their phone with an orange cat, overlaid with text asking 'feel like texting your ex? look at this first,' introducing a discussion on breaking up.
A text box on a pink background explaining how love creates neural associations, and how checking an ex's socials reinforces neural pathways after a breakup, with an arrow indicating a visual example.
A pink flowchart illustrating the cycle of checking an ex's social media: breakup, neural misfire, feeling low, creeping socials, temporary high, and strengthening neural networks, with text 'how to interrupt the cycle.'
look at this before texting your ex
I know the urge to text your ex is strong, but your attachment to them is literally like an addiction. studies show that love and physical intimacy evoke the same neural chemicals as addiction, so you need to treat it as such. if you were to quit an addiction, you can slowly ween yourself off of it
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evelyn

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My ex said nobody will want to date me
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Bella Fox🍓

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When you pull up on your EX and her new man 😳 Pt.1
Have you ever experienced pulling up on your EX and their new boo? OR has your #ex #pulledup on you and your #NewBoo ? 😳🤔🤣
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Wealthy Jev

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A woman looks up at a blue sky with clouds and pink flower overlays. Text reads: 'WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS TO DO WHEN YOU ENCOUNTER TRIALS aka hardships.'
An illustration of a young woman kneeling and embracing a wooden cross under a starry sky. Text overlay states: 'CLING to Jesus & never leave Him while you wait for His mercy.'
A mirror reflects a bedroom, with a plant in the foreground. A handwritten note on the mirror says 'SO I WILL BE CONTENT IN EVERY CIRCUMSTANCE.' Text overlay: 'Accept what is happening to you.'
What the Bible says to do when you encounter trial
1. Cling to Jesus and never leave Him while you wait for His mercy. - Keep reading the Bible every morning or night, Pray whenever you think to! Otw to school or work, in the car, take a holy girl walk where you just pray to God like a bestie, pray randomly at school or work in your h
LYD LUX 🤍🎧☁️✨

LYD LUX 🤍🎧☁️✨

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I’m passing this down to a nurse or future nurse bestie that will be the best she can be💕
You know if nothing else, I want to see my people do well. I am a real nursing bestie and if I find some info, I’m passing it along. Someone gave this to me and so I’m passing it to yall so you have it for reference. Save for later. Hope this helps you and provides reference for your growth 💕🥰🥂 #n
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AKIMNEVERSETTLES11

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A woman takes a selfie on a laptop screen, with a ring light and a painting of a man with an apple over his face in the background. The image displays the title "HOW TO COPE WITH YOUR EX MOVING ON."
A person's feet in black loafers and white socks stand on a dark ground with scattered leaves. The text overlay reads: "UNDERSTAND THAT JUST BECAUSE THEY'RE IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP, THAT DOES NOT INVALIDATE THE RELATIONSHIP YOU HAD TOGETHER."
A broken egg with spilled yolk lies on a tiled floor. The text overlay states: "UNDERSTAND THAT JUST BECAUSE THEY'RE MOVING ON DOES NOT MEAN THEY'RE REPLACING YOU. YOU ARE UNIQUE, AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER WAS UNIQUE AS WELL. THEIR NEW RELATIONSHIP WILL ALSO BE UNIQUE AND DIFFERENT THAN YOURS."
how to cope with your ex moving on
seeing your ex move on while you're still very much in pain can feel like a huge setback, and it can definitely be hard to cope with. but it's important to remember that it's not personal, and it doesn't erase your relationship together. you will survive, and you too will find so
evelyn

evelyn

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A dark cinema showing a movie on screen, with the text 'MOVIES THAT WILL F with your mind' overlaid. A person's legs are visible in the foreground.
The movie poster for Tenet, featuring John David Washington holding a gun, with his reflection. The plot describes a CIA operative's global mission unfolding beyond real time.
The movie poster for Shutter Island, showing Leonardo DiCaprio's face and a burning light. The plot involves US marshals investigating a disappearance at an asylum on a remote island.
Movies that will F with your mind 📺🎬
1. Tenet,m2020 ⭐️ 7.3/10 – This is as good as Cinema gets. I didn't expect that Nolan would create such a original movie once again. This is never been done before. It's incredible - one of the best Movies I've ever sen and I actually think that This movie tops Inception. 2. Shutte
Rachelle Smith

Rachelle Smith

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Smoother than your ex’s lies!🍒🍓
#bodycareroutine #lemon8challenge #bodycare #bodymist #bodyscrub #DIY #diybodycare #diybodyscrub #lemon8beauty @Lemon8 Beauty #beautyfinds
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Beliefs That Will Transform Your life in your 30s✨
💡 Your 30s will test you, grow you, and shape you in ways your 20s never could. Here are belief shifts that will protect your peace, elevate your standards, and help you build a life that feels good on the inside — not just one that looks good online: • Stop rushing life. You’re not late
K✨

K✨

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A text graphic titled '14 TRUTHS ABOUT WHY YOU KEEP GOING BACK TO YOUR EX' lists reasons like attachment to familiarity, confusing attention with love, and fear of starting over. It includes reality checks, reminders, and life lessons about healing and moving forward from past relationships.
PART 2: 14 Truths About Why You Keep Going Back to Your Ex
You don’t go back because it’s right… you go back because it feels familiar. And familiarity can feel like comfort — even when it’s the same thing that hurt you. The truth is… Most people don’t go back for love. They go back for: • The habit • The emotional attachment • The tempora
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Aisha .T Cleaners & J Advocate

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A graphic with the title "Why YOU should be doing SHADOW WORK (This practice will save your life) SWIPE/READ BELOW" in pink and purple text. A dark-skinned cartoon woman in a striped top and denim shorts covers her eyes.
A graphic defining "WHAT IS SHADOW WORK?" as exploring inner parts and understanding habits/triggers. A cartoon woman with an angry expression is on the left, with text explaining shadow work and its benefits.
A graphic titled "Shadow Work Prompts" listing questions for self-reflection, such as judging others, past hurts, and unaccepted aspects of oneself. A cartoon woman with an angry expression is on the left.
This Post Will Make You Cry 😢
Disclaimer: The title is used for dramatic effect, I do not guarantee you will shed tears after reading this. People don’t really talk about the mental part of glowing up. It’s important that you establish a good state of mental foundation before jumping into ANY glow up/weight loss/manifestatio
Virtual Big Sis

Virtual Big Sis

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When Your Ex Trying To Get You Back
#fyp #ex #relationshipadvice #stayaway #advice
ChildofGod81

ChildofGod81

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My Jump Rope book will help you get in shape 💪🏾
Book review of the week! I love seeing reviews like this. Check out my latest review, drop yours, and let me know when you do—your review might get featured! Grab my book right here: https://amzn.to/435NQg2
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Musclesbymarcell

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self-improvement WILL level up your life
Self-improvement is a transformative journey that holds immense significance in our lives. It is a conscious effort to become the best version of ourselves, both personally and professionally. This process involves setting goals, acquiring new skills, and evolving as individuals. One of the key
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Kelly Ann

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A woman takes a mirror selfie, with large pink text overlaying "the impacts of checking your ex's socials." Smaller text identifies the content creator as @evxlynchristine, a breakup coach, and mentions Lemon8. White heart outlines are also visible.
This image displays text explaining how neuroplasticity links loved ones to good feelings. It details how relationship endings cause distress, leading to checking an ex's socials, which reinforces neural pathways instead of rewiring them. An arrow points to a "visual example."
A pink flowchart illustrates the negative cycle of checking an ex's social media. It shows "the breakup happens," leading to misfiring neural networks, feeling low, creeping socials for a temporary "high," strengthening neural networks, and the high wearing off, perpetuating the cycle.
Checking your ex social media ✨
DONT DO IT 🙂‍↕️
Sierra 🩷

Sierra 🩷

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this book will change your life
For the girlies that want to level-up, glow-up, become powerful and assertive and confidence. For those who resonate with Taylor Swift’s anthem “whose afraid of little old me?” For those who read the quote, “mom, I am a rich man.” - Cher and got chills. READ THE BOOK. The 48 Laws of Power
kristenevans

kristenevans

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When You Replace The Ex
Wanting to replace your ex is ignoring the lesson altogether and that’s why you keep attracting the same type of partner. #consciousbreakups #relationshipcoach #healing #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #healingjourney
Megan

Megan

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A person with long dark hair and a blue bow, seen from behind, wearing a white top and floral skirt. Overlay text indicates a breakup playlist titled "no ❤️ songs for when your ex hits your phone (love yourself first, babe)" by "ramennoodlie", lasting 1h 10m.
the anti-ex playlist
“didn’t think you’d lose me, now it’s just too late to chose me” is the vibe, my loves. know your worth & be careful with that pretty lil heart of yours!!😤🤍 - #playlist #spotify #spotifyplaylist #breakup #breakuprecovery
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tallie

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Two people hug on a sidewalk with cars in the background, illustrating the title "QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF BEFORE GOING BACK TO YOUR EX." The image includes the Lemon8 logo and user handle.
A cloudy sky over buildings and trees, featuring the question: "WHAT WILL BE DIFFERENT THIS TIME THAN LAST TIME? IS IT ANYTHING, OR AM I JUST HOLDING ONTO AN IDEALIZED VERSION OF THE RELATIONSHIP?" The Lemon8 logo is present.
A cozy bedside scene with a lamp, books, and a bed, overlaid with the question: "AM I JUST LONELY AND GOING BACK TO WHAT'S COMFORTABLE? OR WILL THIS GENUINELY BE FULFILLING?" The Lemon8 logo is visible.
should you really get back with your ex?
I usually believe that we breakup for a reason, and it takes a lot for that reason to change. but every situation is different! it can feel like an easy thing to do, especially when you’re feeling lonely after a breakup and just want that comfort back. so it’s important to really check in with your
evelyn

evelyn

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When you ex ask dumb questions
#fyp #viral #hoodgeek757 #relationship
RBM the Geek

RBM the Geek

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A smartphone on a tripod is set up to record a flat lay of items on a wooden table, illustrating how to start an account. The image includes text overlays like 'HOW TO START A ACCOUNT!! EX: TIKTOK Lemon 8 Day'.
A person holds a smartphone displaying the TikTok app. The image provides 'Step 1' instructions on finding a niche for content, suggesting topics like celebrities or sounds, and emphasizing consistency in the chosen area.
A shadow of a person making a peace sign is cast on an orange-lit wall. The image outlines 'Step 2' for posting frequency, recommending 1-3 posts daily for better engagement, and noting that posting times are less important than consistency.
How to start a account!! ex: tiktok
First post!! getting ready for tiktok getting banned😭 #tiktok #paigebueckers #hellolemon8ers #lemon8cre8or #tips
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A close-up image of a person with long dark hair and glossy red lips. A torn gray paper strip covers their eyes, featuring the handwritten text "Things I've learned from my ex" and a sun icon. Purple heart emojis float around the head, and a Lemon8 watermark is visible.
Things I’ve learned from my ex
As much as I still hate my ex boyfriend for becoming the very thing he promised he wouldn’t be like an ex before him (a cheater) I still have to stop to recognize what I’ve learned after our breakup. First things first, long distance relationships aren’t always promising, and after a while it ca
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🖤☠️Kimiko☠️🖤

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