There's a find...Will have

There's a find...There is

"There is found...There is a slice "is a short sentence we always hear, but when the day comes to face on its own, it is difficult for many to accept this fact.

We are glad to meet loved ones, happy to have an understanding friend, proud to possess what we wish, but we rarely think that every encounter hides the day of leave.

When one day the people who were together left, when the strong relationships gradually changed, when the things that had been lost, the heart began to ask, "Why is this?"

In fact, not because the world is mean, but because its nature has been like this since the beginning.

The Buddha taught that everything that happens is temporary, and then transforms and extinguishes, and nothing lasts forever - life, love, property, fame, or even our own bodies.

When we do not understand this fact, we accidentally create the expectation that good things will stay with us forever, loved ones will never change their minds, health will always be strong, duty positions will be stable.

But the truth is not.

When the truth does not meet expectations, the heart suffers.

Many people regret it, not because of taking away alone, but because the heart does not accept that taking away is part of life.

Notice that since we were born, we've seen a lot of people, some of them walked in briefly and left, some of them were very close, but today we barely talk, some of them promised to live side by side, but finally only memories.

Even ourselves are not the same people we were ten years ago.

Thoughts change.

Body change

The feeling changed.

Preference changes

Everything is constantly moving.

Seeing this change, we begin to understand that separation is not unusual, but common to all life.

Understanding "found..."does not mean to be cold or to love anyone again.

On the contrary, we can love with all our heart but not stick.

Take care of each other on days that still have a chance.

Say good words on the day they still meet.

Forgive each other before it's too late.

Show gratitude while you're alive.

Because no one knows which day will be the last of the meeting.

Many people are waiting.

Wait for time.

Wait to be free

Wait, get ready.

But life never waits for anyone

When it comes to wanting to say love, there may be no more opportunities.

When you want to apologize, there may be no one to apologize.

When you want to repay your gratitude, there may only be photos left to look at.

So the realization of impermanence is not to make us sad, but to remind us to use every moment we have worthily.

People who understand the truth of life will not underestimate time.

He won't be mad at each other for a little.

Not accumulating a vendetta.

Not clinging to compliments or reproaches.

Because I know that everything comes through and then passes.

Even the suffering itself, too.

The day that cried the hardest, one day became just a memory.

The most painful days have passed.

Seeing this, the heart can gradually drop.

In fairness, suffering is not caused by separation alone, but by "adherence," that it must be ours, that it must be with us, and that it must not change.

The more seizure, the more it hurts.

The more you can let go, the more you can go.

Letting go is not relegation or abandonment, but acceptance of the fact that everything has its time.

By the time it was found,

When the time comes, it's from

When the time comes, it changes.

No one can violate the laws of nature.

Even the enlightened Buddha lives to extinguish the pranirvana.

The gods are still crazy.

There is therefore no reason for us to expect our lives to be an exception.

If you are with a loved one today, love with compassion, not with possession.

If you are healthy today, use it to create goodness.

If there is a chance to do good today, do not procrastinate.

Because no one knows if this meeting will be the last.

Finally...

The important thing is not how long we can be with anyone.

But how much love, compassion and goodwill we gave each other.

When the day of the taking comes,

We can leave with mourning.

But not necessarily separated by suffering.

Because we already understand that...

"There is found...There is

There was a birth...There is extinguished

This is not the cruelty of life.

But the ordinary of all things. "

Seeing this truth with wisdom, the heart slowly loosens its hold, knows love without possession, lives carelessly, and accepts change with peace, for true happiness lies not in never leaving, but in the heart that gently understands and accepts the truth of the world.

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