What is your way getting over being done wrong?

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... Read moreBetrayal can leave deep emotional scars, making it difficult to move past the pain caused by someone's actions. It’s vital to acknowledge these feelings, allowing oneself to grieve what was lost. One effective method to heal is by expressing emotions through journaling or talking to a trusted friend. These practices help clarify feelings and promote healing. Additionally, understanding that forgiveness is a personal journey can ease the burden. It doesn't always mean reconciling; sometimes, it's about finding peace for yourself. Engaging in self-care, such as meditation or mindfulness, can also foster inner peace. Many find comfort in community support through forums or groups where they can share similar experiences. The act of voicing feelings allows for communal healing, reminding individuals they are not alone in their struggles. Finally, setting healthy boundaries is crucial in moving forward, ensuring new relationships or reconciliations are built on mutual respect and trust.

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I pretty much let go of past but transparency is a key what I mean by that is always be true to himself I hate it when he dosent really say how he feels to protect my feelings

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Yes I agree, I feel like lying is the hardest thing to get over. Like why lie? Me questioning everything you say shouldn’t be the base of our relationship

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