I’m 27 and still lost…

I spent my 20s in and out the hospital. I had a plan- Finish high school and study nursing. I wanted to be a pediatric nurse because I understood being a kid that happens to be sick. I wanted to make kids smile and laugh when their parent/ guardian couldn’t be present. But that was all cut short my sophomore year of Uni 🫠 kidney failed, diabetes all over the place, retina almost detaching, etc.

I still go through my trials, I’m still in and out the hospital but I really wanna focus on something.

I sing and release music but I want to STUDY something more reliable than singing lol I want to be an educated singing baddie.

But I’m lost.. I didn’t prepare a back up plan. I can’t be around sick people much cause my immune system is weak. I also don’t even know if I want to be in the health care field anymore ( too many hospital visits as is 😖). I see my friends progressing and following their dreams and I’m happy they were able to do what they want and planned but I’m LOST.

20s suck 😂😂😂😭

#Lemon8Diary #relatable #transplant

2025/5/6 Edited to

... Read moreNavigating your 20s can be exceptionally challenging, especially when dealing with health issues. For many young adults, the pressure to find a stable career path can feel overwhelming. It’s normal to feel lost when faced with unexpected life changes, such as health setbacks or a change in ambitions. Studies show that a significant number of individuals in their 20s grapple with career uncertainty as they transition from school to the workforce. It’s a time for exploration and self-discovery, not just professionally but personally as well. Many young people take time to assess their passions, reassess long-term goals, and sometimes even pivot to new areas of interest entirely. Resources and communities geared toward young adults can provide support and shared experiences. Sharing struggles in forums, such as #Lemon8Diary and #relatable, can foster a sense of belonging and understanding, which is crucial during often confusing times. Realizing that many others feel similarly lost can be cathartic, helping to guide individuals toward clarity and renewed purpose. If you're experiencing similar feelings, consider reaching out to mentors, career counselors, or even peers who can lend an ear or provide guidance. Remember, it’s never too late to change direction, and every experience contributes to a richer understanding of who you are and what you want to achieve.

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28 here, and I also lost a lot of time in my twenties to things I couldn't really control. Feel like I lost a lot of valuable time to make progress on my dreams, but I just keep reminding myself I'm still really young and I have until I'm 💀 to figure it out. At the very least, you're not alone ❤️

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Give your all to God and he will literally make a way for you out of no way he will guide you into your purpose. He’s literally the way maker and guides the lost you got this girl💛

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