New-ish mom

I’m a new-ish mom! I say new-ish because my oldest is 15 years old.

I’m preparing to return to work February 26.

I’m exclusively breastfeeding, and pumping.

My favorite things are to read, workout (when I have time or find it), watch shows and of course snuggle my baby boy!

Look forward to being apart Lemon8!

2024/2/22 Edited to

... Read moreBecoming a 'new-ish' mom again has truly been a wild ride, and I totally get why people search for 'moms on call' advice! It feels like I'm constantly on duty, especially with a newborn and preparing to head back to work. My oldest is 15, so while I'm not a first-timer, it's like learning everything all over again – especially with exclusive breastfeeding and pumping. One of the biggest hurdles has been figuring out how to manage exclusive breastfeeding and pumping while preparing for my return to work. It's a whole new level of scheduling! I've started practicing pumping sessions during my baby's typical feeding times to build up a freezer stash. Investing in a good quality, portable pump has been a game-changer, allowing me to pump hands-free while I'm doing other things, like catching up on emails or even just having a moment to myself. I also found it helpful to connect with other working moms who breastfeed – their tips on everything from freezer storage to advocating for pump breaks at work have been invaluable. Then there’s the quest for 'me-time.' Remember when I mentioned enjoying reading, working out, and watching shows? Well, finding that time now feels like a luxury! What I’ve learned is that 'me-time' doesn't always have to be a big chunk of uninterrupted solitude. Sometimes it's just 15 minutes with a book while the baby naps, or a quick 20-minute online workout video during naptime. I've also found that involving my partner or even my older child in baby care for a fixed period allows me to step away for a bit without guilt. Even a hot cup of coffee enjoyed in silence can feel like a mini-vacation! Sleep, or the lack thereof, is another huge component of feeling 'on call.' While I'm not strictly following a specific 'moms on call' schedule, I've found that trying to establish some sort of routine for baby's feeds and naps, even loosely, helps me mentally prepare for the day. It’s not about perfection, but about creating some predictable rhythms in an otherwise unpredictable new baby life. This has helped me anticipate when I might have a window to eat, shower, or even just rest my eyes. And honestly, the biggest takeaway has been learning to ask for help. Whether it's my partner taking the baby for an hour so I can nap, or a friend dropping off a meal, accepting support has been crucial for my sanity. We don't have to do it all alone. Being a 'new-ish' mom is exhausting but incredibly rewarding. I'm still figuring it all out, but sharing these small wins and struggles makes the journey feel a little less overwhelming. Here's to all the 'moms on call' out there – we've got this!

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