At 46, if I could go back and talk to my 26-year-old self, I’d say:

• Check your hormones every year. Aim for optimal ranges, not just “normal” ones.

• Health issues rarely happen overnight. Your body usually whispers before it screams. Pay attention to the early signs.

• Take care of your gut. Everything starts there. Poor nutrition, chronic stress, and environmental toxins can have a bigger impact than you realize.

• Prioritize yourself. You can’t pour from an empty cup.

• Stop people-pleasing. Not everyone deserves access to your energy.

• Check in with yourself often. Know your worth and trust your instincts.

• Invest in your health now. The habits you build in your 20s and 30s become the foundation of your 40s and beyond.

Some lessons come from experience. If I could pass anything on to my younger self, it would be this.

#fertility #ttcjourney #over40 #over40club

6/4 Edited to

... Read moreLooking back on my own health and fertility journey, especially as someone who had 3 healthy pregnancies in my 40s, I can’t stress enough the importance of early and proactive self-care. Hormonal balance is a key factor that many young women overlook, often settling for 'normal' lab ranges instead of optimal levels that truly reflect their best health. Annual hormone testing can reveal subtle imbalances early, helping you avoid bigger problems later. Another critical area is gut health. The gut isn’t just about digestion; it influences your immune system, hormonal regulation, and even mental health. When I was younger, I underestimated how chronic stress, poor nutrition, and environmental toxins would impact my gut and overall fertility. I found that improving my diet, reducing chemical exposures, and managing stress through mindfulness and regular exercise made noticeable improvements over time. Self-prioritization is something I struggled with for years. As women, we tend to juggle so many responsibilities that we often neglect ourselves. Learning to set boundaries and stop people-pleasing was a game-changer—protecting my energy and focusing on what really mattered. Listening to your inner voice and respecting your instincts can guide you away from burnout and health decline. Lastly, building healthy habits in your 20s and 30s is the foundation for thriving health after 40, especially if you’re considering pregnancy later. This includes mindful eating, regular physical activity, stress management, and maintaining a support network. These practices not only optimize fertility but also support long-term wellness. Sharing these insights, I hope to empower other women to take charge of their health early, trusting that the effort they invest now will pay dividends for years to come.

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