Losing a father creates a profound void that is felt deeply every day. From my own experience, the absence often feels more tangible than the memories we hold. It’s common to move forward in life, yet feel as if you’re only halfway there because the person who once guided and protected you is no longer present. The lines from the poem “Tu me manques plus que je le dis” resonate strongly—sometimes words can’t encompass the true extent of what we feel inside. Grieving is a personal journey and often involves moments of tears, heartbreak, and remembering shared moments. I found it helpful to acknowledge my feelings openly and to honor my father's memory by keeping him close in my heart and thoughts. Watching over us “de là-haut” (from above) brings a sense of spiritual comfort that he remains a protective presence even if unseen. Engaging with supportive communities or sharing your emotions, like through social media or forums with hashtags such as #triste and #papajet, can be healing. It helps us connect with others who understand the complexities of loss. Remembering that grief doesn’t follow a timeline allows us to be gentle with ourselves as we adjust to life without our loved ones. The journey towards acceptance doesn’t mean forgetting; rather, it means learning to live with the pain while cherishing the memories. As you continue to move forward, know that your feelings are valid and that your dad’s love remains a guiding light.