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That Blameshifting Relationship

Accusing you of being toxic is a tactic to flip blame and protect their image.

It’s projection, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation that keeps the focus on you while their abuse goes unchecked.

Accountability disappears when they rewrite the story, but your clarity comes when you stop carrying their lies.

2025/9/16 Edited to

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that's right but where more i intelligent of them so what I do it take time need a lot of patients to let them realize they not happy to ack like that and they could change, same time change ther life and discover them self how to love them self not everyone as success, but I always try to help them until I realized there's nothing to do with them some there stubborn stupid all there life.

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