That Blameshifting Relationship

Accusing you of being toxic is a tactic to flip blame and protect their image.

It’s projection, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation that keeps the focus on you while their abuse goes unchecked.

Accountability disappears when they rewrite the story, but your clarity comes when you stop carrying their lies.

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