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If it's easier to choose yourself, read this book.

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... Read moreเมื่อได้อ่านหนังสือเล่มนี้ ผมรู้สึกเหมือนได้เพื่อนที่พูดตรงไปตรงมาและเข้าใจในความรู้สึกของเราอย่างแท้จริง หนังสือเน้นเรื่องการเลิกโกหกตัวเองและอยู่กับความจริง โดยใช้ประโยคที่กระแทกใจและตรงประเด็นมากๆ อย่างเช่นคำว่า “Stop Lying to Yourself” ที่ทำให้ผมหยุดที่จะมองข้ามความรู้สึกแท้จริงของตัวเองและเริ่มตั้งคำถามกับสิ่งที่เคยทำผิดพลาด สิ่งที่ทำให้หนังสือเล่มนี้โดดเด่นคือการที่มันอ่านง่ายมากๆ เหมือนอ่านบทสนทนากับเพื่อน คนเขียนใส่ใจในการกระตุ้นให้ผู้อ่านได้สติและรักตัวเองให้มากขึ้น ซึ่งเป็นสิ่งที่หลายคนมองข้ามและประมาทไปโดยไม่รู้ตัว สำหรับใครที่เคยเจ็บปวดกับความรักหรือความสัมพันธ์ ประโยคเด็ดๆ ที่ว่า “ถ้าไม่แน่ใจว่าเขาคือคนที่ใช่หรือเปล่า จงเรียนรู้จากคนเดิมซ้ำสอง” ช่วยให้ผมมองเห็นภาพชัดขึ้นว่า เรามักจะติดอยู่ในวงจรความทรงจำเก่าๆ มากกว่าใช้ชีวิตอยู่กับปัจจุบันและตัวเองจริงๆ ผมแนะนำว่า หนังสือเล่มนี้เหมาะสำหรับคนที่ต้องการแรงผลักดันในการรักและเลือกตัวเองให้ชัดเจนขึ้น รวมทั้งคนที่กำลังมองหาความจริงในการใช้ชีวิต ไม่ว่าจะเป็นเรื่องความรัก หรือการตัดสินใจในชีวิตประจำวัน การอ่านหนังสือเล่มนี้เหมือนการปลุกสติตัวเองให้ลุกขึ้นสู้และเดินหน้าต่อไปอย่างมั่นใจมากขึ้น

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