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🌈 How to Do Hard Things

This book is like a friend sitting down talking to us on a day when everything is "all hard."

Whether it's friends, love, work or inexplicable feelings.

The content is very easy to read. Each chapter is short, concise, with small ideas that help adjust the mind set without pressure.

Not taught to be strong all the time, but taught to "understand yourself" more.

What I like a lot is

✨ Written in warm, non-judgmental language.

✨ There's an example of a real situation. I read it and felt like we weren't alone.

✨ fits the day when your heart is tired, you want to cheer gently.

This volume did not immediately make the issue disappear.

But give us the courage to deal with it a little bit at a time. 🌤️

Anyone who is feeling that life is too difficult lately

This volume could be a small starting point that helps make everything "less difficult," 🤍

Print Office: Bloom

Writer: Veronica Dearly

# Book review # Books to read # Develop yourself # HowToDoHardThings # Read and heart

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... Read moreหนังสือ "How to Do Hard Things" โดย Veronica Dearly ถือเป็นไกด์เล่มเล็ก ๆ ที่ผมคิดว่าใครหลายคนต้องการเมื่อรู้สึกว่าชีวิตเต็มไปด้วยเรื่องยากลำบาก ไม่ว่าจะเป็นปัญหาจากความสัมพันธ์ การงาน หรือแม้แต่ความรู้สึกที่หาคำอธิบายไม่ได้ สิ่งที่ทำให้หนังสือเล่มนี้แตกต่างจากคู่มือการพัฒนาตัวเองเล่มอื่น ๆ คือ การใช้ภาษาที่อบอุ่นและไม่ตัดสินผู้อ่าน ทำให้คุณรู้สึกเหมือนได้คุยกับเพื่อนที่เข้าใจในวันที่ทุกอย่างมันดูหนักไปหมด ตัวอย่างเหตุการณ์จริงและไอเดียสั้น ๆ ในแต่ละบทช่วยปรับเปลี่ยนมายด์เซ็ตได้แบบไม่กดดัน เหมาะกับคนที่ไม่ได้ต้องการแรงผลักดันอย่างแรงกล้า แต่แค่อยากจะเข้าใจและดูแลตัวเองในวันที่รู้สึกเหนื่อยใจ อีกจุดที่ชอบมาก คือการเน้นให้กล้าค่อย ๆ จัดการเรื่องยาก ๆ นั้นทีละนิด เช่นเดียวกับการยอมรับว่าการเปลี่ยนแปลงในตัวเองมีแค่เราเท่านั้นที่ทำได้ ซึ่งเป็นข้อความสำคัญที่ช่วยสร้างความหวังและแรงใจให้กับคนที่กำลังท้อแท้ จากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัว ผมพบว่าการอ่านแนวทางแบบนี้ช่วยพัฒนามุมมองการแก้ปัญหาไปในแนวทางที่นุ่มนวลและยั่งยืนมากขึ้น ไม่ใช่เพียงแค่ผลักดันให้เข้มแข็งอย่างเดียวแต่ให้เวลาและความเมตตาต่อตัวเอง พร้อมทั้งเข้าใจว่าการเดินทางผ่านความยากลำบากเป็นเรื่องปกติของทุกคน สำหรับใครที่กำลังมองหาหนังสือสั้น ๆ ที่ไม่ยาวจนเกินไปแต่เต็มไปด้วยข้อความส่งเสริมกำลังใจและวิธีคิดแบบใหม่ๆ เล่มนี้น่าจะตอบโจทย์ได้ดี และเหมาะกับช่วงเวลาที่หัวใจต้องการการฮีลแบบเบา ๆ และแนวทางที่ทำได้จริงในชีวิตประจำวัน

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