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When you start to be disliked, it s a sign that the vibration has gone up

Are there any people who have a strong hit recently?

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... Read more私もかつて、自分の状況が変わるに従い、なぜか周りの人の態度がきつくなった経験があります。その時は戸惑い、不安もありましたが、ある気づきがありました。それは、私のエネルギーや考え方が変わり、以前の自分とは違う波動になったため、合わなくなる人も出てくるということです。 特に、心の成長や成功を目指すとき、周囲との摩擦や誤解が増えることがあります。これは嫉妬や共鳴しない人が現れる自然な現象です。重要なのは、自己を縮めずにエネルギーを落とさず、より軽やかに高く前進し続けることです。 私の場合、そうした違和感や拒絶反応は自分の波動が上昇した証拠と受けとめ、新しい挑戦や自己表現に一層意欲的になりました。また、応援してくれる人の存在が大きな心の支えとなりました。 このように、嫌われはじめることは、自分が次のステージへ進んだことの現れでもあり、成長のチャンスです。だからこそ、否定的な反応に対して過敏になりすぎず、自分の内面の光やエネルギーを大切にしながら歩んでみてください。

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