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What I want to tell myself in my 20s (if I can go back in time!)

If asked what is the "most expensive" thing, it is not a luxury bag...It's not brand-name clothes, it's our "time" and "health."

It's not just about money, it's about finding knowledge and sleeping well for yourself long-term, not morning or morning.

Discipline and freedom Discipline saving or working as a teenager will result in more "life choices" as we grow up. It seems to be a little late 😁 because it was fun to spend money.

Don't compare yourself to anyone. Don't compete with anyone. Each flower doesn't bloom at the same time. Our lives are the same. Don't rush to compete with anyone. Compete with yourself. Really, beyond childhood.

But can think now that there is no word late

# Grow up and know that # Work life review # Good ideas # Investment finance

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... Read moreในวัย 20 เป็นช่วงเวลาที่หลายคนอาจจะยังไม่เห็นความสำคัญของ "เวลา" และ "สุขภาพ" เท่าไรนัก เนื่องจากยังรู้สึกว่ามีเวลามากพอที่จะใช้ชีวิตอย่างอิสระและสนุกสนาน แต่ถ้ามองย้อนกลับไป หลายคนมักรู้สึกเสียดายเวลาที่ใช้ไปอย่างเปล่าประโยชน์หรือละเลยการดูแลร่างกายของตัวเองไป การเลือกให้ความสำคัญกับการพักผ่อนให้เพียงพอและการรับประทานอาหารที่ดีต่อสุขภาพในช่วงนี้ จะช่วยปลูกฝังนิสัยที่ดีและป้องกันปัญหาสุขภาพในอนาคตได้อย่างมาก นอกจากสุขภาพแล้ว "การลงทุนกับตัวเอง" ในด้านความรู้ก็เป็นเรื่องที่ควรจะใส่ใจตั้งแต่ต้น เพราะความรู้คือกุญแจสำคัญที่ช่วยเปิดโอกาสและประสบความสำเร็จในชีวิต โดยเฉพาะการเรียนรู้ทักษะใหม่ๆ เช่น การบริหารการเงิน การเขียนโปรแกรม หรือทักษะสื่อสาร ซึ่งสามารถนำไปพัฒนาต่อยอดได้ในหลายด้าน เรื่องวินัยทางการเงินก็เป็นอีกหนึ่งสิ่งที่หลายคนเรียนรู้ได้ช้า อาจจะเพราะความสนุกสนานในวัยรุ่นทำให้ใช้จ่ายโดยไม่ได้วางแผน การเริ่มมีวินัยการออมเงินตั้งแต่เนิ่นๆ จะช่วยให้มีเงินสำรองสำหรับช่วงฉุกเฉิน และยังสร้างความรู้สึกมีอิสระในการเลือกใช้ชีวิตตามที่ต้องการในอนาคตได้มากขึ้นด้วย สิ่งที่สำคัญที่สุดที่เห็นได้จากประสบการณ์คือ การไม่เปรียบเทียบตัวเองกับผู้อื่น เพราะแต่ละคนมีเส้นทางชีวิตและจังหวะที่แตกต่างกัน การแข่งขันกับตัวเองในการพัฒนาตัวเองจะช่วยให้เกิดความสุขและความพึงพอใจมากกว่า และที่ดีที่สุดคือไม่เคยสายเกินไปที่จะมองย้อนกลับมาแล้วเริ่มต้นทำสิ่งดีๆ เพื่อชีวิตที่ดีกว่าในทุกช่วงวัย

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