As a first-time mom, I've found that the 'all I want is mom' era is a unique and heartwarming phase in my baby's development. Around eight months old, many babies begin to show strong preferences, often focusing their attention lovingly on mom. This behavior really stood out when I gave my baby to dad, but he kept glancing at me with those big eyes, almost like a little lurker! It’s a common phase where babies seek comfort and security from their primary caregiver. This stage can feel taxing but it's also an opportunity to strengthen your bond with your baby. I noticed my little one would watch and follow me around the room, and sometimes get a bit fussy when separated. Understanding this helped me be more patient and cherish these moments. Engaging with your baby during this time by talking, singing, or playing nearby can provide reassurance. Also, involving dad in playful activities helps the baby become comfortable with both parents. Sharing these experiences with other first-time moms on platforms like TikTok and BabyTok has been encouraging—they all seem to relate to this cute yet challenging phase. For anyone going through this 'lurker' time, remember it's temporary and a sign of your baby’s healthy attachment. Embrace the attention and enjoy these precious bonding moments with your little one!