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🥲Three things the boss hit but the crew never knew.🥺

Many people may think the boss is comfortable with just commanding, but it's not really easy behind the scenes, so I just understood when I stepped up to be the boss, and I realized that there are things that my employees haven't seen.

First, when my employees fail, the boss is the one who has to take the pressure instead, either from the bigger boss or from the client. I've been in a meeting so bad that I have to keep my temper and speak well to the team because I don't want anyone to lose their encouragement.

Second, salaries and bonuses, many times the team wants more, but the boss has to negotiate, sometimes it is considered "a" when he really wants everyone to be happy, but the ceiling is not enough to negotiate.

And the other hardest thing is isolation, when the henchmen are close, they share everything, but the boss doesn't have anyone to tell the full amount of pressure to keep and find a way to solve it quietly.

The position of boss is not just a soft chair, but a chair full of pressure that the people below have never seen. If anyone has a good head, give a lot of value, because before he makes the team look strong, he may be hiding his wounds.

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