-Bc I chose each one!!
I already knew to go get my hair box put something on the floor, slap on lifetime tv network or whatever she be watching. Sit down and get my hair done. Luckily for me, she didn’t mind me making requests.
She gave me any style but the “shoo” I would constantly ask for.
And that’s OK because I would just let the back out when I get to school, then just get in trouble later lol
Meanwhile, I was going so hard getting in trouble constantly for fighting and arguments. Honestly Idgad when they called me a Boat! Or church jit I was irritated because I chose them ribbons myself! And you’re insulting the hairstyle Mumi and I created!
I mean ME I created. lol
I didn’t give a dayum!
I looked GOODT! I loved them in the time her and I spent.
Tell my mama to come pick me up from detention.. AGAIN!
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#Pride #hairstyles #growinguphaitian #haitianamerican #poutoi
Growing up with Haitian hair traditions has always been a unique and special experience for me. I vividly remember how my MaMa used to carefully place ribbons and barrettes in my hair—each accessory reflecting a piece of our culture that I proudly wore every day. Yes, some kids tried to make fun, calling it names or teasing me, but deep down, I understood the love and meaning behind those styles. What made it even more meaningful was that I got to choose each ribbon myself. That personal choice gave me a sense of ownership and pride that no teasing could ever take away. Although I sometimes got into trouble at school for various reasons, including letting parts of my hair out to avoid a style I didn’t want, I was never ashamed of the look my MaMa and I created together. It was a symbol of identity, love, and tradition. I think many Haitian-American kids can relate to this experience—the blend of cultural pride and the everyday struggles of expressing that pride in environments that may not always understand or appreciate it. Embracing these unique hairstyles is a way to honor both our family heritage and our personal sense of style. If you’re exploring Haitian hairstyles or want to honor your roots, I recommend talking with your family about the significance behind these accessories. For me, it was not just about the ribbons or barrettes; it was about the time spent with my MaMa, the stories she shared, and the pride that I carried through my look. This kind of cultural connection is invaluable and has shaped my identity in more ways than one.

















































































