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I Used To Be Terrified of Women…

Growing up I had a very difficult relationship with my mother and my sister. My mom struggled with bpd and narcissism and I believe my sister resented having to parent me. When these, the most important female relationships you can have, are so unsafe- it can make it really hard to have female friends. I didn’t trust women, I was so afraid of being hurt by women that I avoided them altogether. I clung to my male friends, some of them very sweet and caring and funny, others vile and predatory. I needed sisterhood but I didn’t know how to get it or how to keep it.

It wasn’t until I began to heal from my childhood that I realized how incredible and magical sisterhood is. To have true and deep female friendships is the greatest gift I have ever been given. Women are my safe place.

I am so grateful for the kindness of women, the courage of women, the immeasurable beauty of women. I would not be here on this earth without the sisters I have found. I have been so lucky to have women that have taught me what it means to “show up” for someone. I am blessed.

#Lemon8Diary #womenempowerment #embracevulnerability

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Fear of women can stem from difficult childhood experiences, as many might struggle with complex family dynamics. Understanding and healing from these past traumas is a vital first step. Female friendships, when nurtured, can provide emotional support, foster empathy, and promote deep connections that enrich lives. The benefits of sisterhood include not only companionship, but also encouragement in personal growth. Women often find strength in supporting one another, breaking down barriers, and embracing vulnerability together. In today’s climate of empowerment, it’s essential to build sisterhood among women for collective resilience. Participating in community initiatives or local support groups can create safe spaces for sharing experiences and building trust. Workshops focusing on self-esteem and emotional healing can also be invaluable in promoting strong, positive connections. Remember that, while past experiences can shape our perceptions, it’s never too late to seek out the beauty of healthy relationships with women. With time, patience, and an open heart, you can rediscover the joy and magic of these friendships.

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So glad you were able to turn that rough start around & enjoy the magic of sisterhood ❤️ amazing reminder that while our childhoods soemtimes don’t prepare us accurately, it’s possible to unlearn & change 🥰

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Oh the ways I can relate. And how I love this so much! All of your posts hit home for me!

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