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"The tenderness we give to others is a flower that blooms from our own imperfections."

Today, Dream has read fiction.

And found a very provocative word

Is the word

_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _

.

"The tenderness we give to others.

Is the flowers that bloom from

Our own imperfections. "

_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _

.

This word makes Dream come back to review himself.

That when Dream met someone who had met

Same story with Dream.

.

Had found a wound

Or a mistake.

Same way.

.

Dream will be willing to be by his side.

And gently help that person.

Always ready to fill the lights.

.

Because he knows what he's going through.

.

Take an example that is not a matter of Dream.

Is someone who has experienced heartbreak.

Will understand and sympathize with those who have been heartbroken

And ready to be there until that person gets better.

_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _

.

But at the same time, sometimes the dream accidentally

Do what is called psychologically

.

A sense projection or

Self-vision in others (Projection)

.

Causing Dream to accidentally take himself in

Overlapped in the other until the judgment occurs.

And try to force him to make a decision.

Just like us.

_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _

.

To give a more visual example is

The mother used to be rebuked.

.

About learning math.

As a child,

.

When you have school problems,

So I tried to force my children to study special.

And make good grades

.

Because of fear that the child will be said by others

Like myself as a child

.

Until forgetting that the two are not the same person

And you don't want to be a math guy.

_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _

.

What I want to say is,

May we embrace ourselves and

Every wound that happens in life

Embrace every imperfection of yourself.

.

Because once we get through it,

Our wounds and pain.

Will become gentle.

Always give someone

.

But in the meantime,

We have to be careful.

.

Not to accidentally take us in

Overlay with the other party.

Until judging or forcing him

.

Because sometimes things are right.

In our situation,

.

Well, maybe wrong.

In his situation...

.

.

Dream. Intent.

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