Confessions of a NICU mama

#lemon8diarychallenge #nicumom #parenting

1. Having a baby at 35 weeks pregnant was the most traumatic thing I have ever been through, even though labor was easy, the thought that my body decided it was time kills me in the inside.

2. Leaving my baby everyday to take care of my kids at home is heartbreaking. I cry everyday and no one understands. The guilt that I get to leave the hospital and my baby has to stay breaks my heart.

3. The medical teams seem so unhelpful and make things even more confusing. I know nothing is linear but the constant changes beyond annoy me and I feel like my baby is not being set up for success.

4. There is a chance that my entire maternity leave is going to be spent in the NICU. I should be bonding with my baby in the comfort of my home.

5. I feel like I annoy my support system with the constant crying and anxieties about leaving my baby at the NICU.

2024/7/31 Edited to

... Read moreThe experience of a NICU mama can be incredibly isolating and overwhelming. Many mothers find themselves grappling with feelings of guilt and anxiety as they try to balance home life with visits to the neonatal intensive care unit. It's important to seek support from friends and family who understand your situation, as your emotional well-being is critical during this time. Connecting with other NICU parents can provide a sense of community. Support groups, both online and in-person, can be valuable resources to share experiences and coping strategies. Understanding that you are not alone in this journey can bring comfort and reassurance. Additionally, advocating for your baby's care is vital. Keeping open lines of communication with healthcare providers, asking questions, and staying informed about your baby's condition can empower you during this challenging time. Knowing that you are actively participating in your child's care can alleviate some feelings of helplessness. Remember to prioritize self-care. Take time for yourself, even if it's just a few moments of quiet reflection. This can help you regain a sense of control amid the unpredictability of the NICU. Your mental health matters, and nurturing yourself is essential to being strong for your baby and family. Finally, cherish the small victories and moments of joy amidst the uncertainty. Each step forward, no matter how small, is a reason to celebrate. Hold onto hope and surround yourself with positivity as you navigate the incredible challenges of being a NICU mama.

20 comments

KDee's images
KDee

#5… I feel sooo much!!! This my first time dealing with this. I delivered at 30 weeks… and my son weighed 3lbs. I wish my health was more better so I wouldn’t have delivered early, it’s eating me up soo bad! Guilt trip and shame all in one… then here comes depression because I can’t have him with me…

Jennifer Buhl's images
Jennifer Buhl

I had my son at 30 weeks the best advice I have as a former nicu mom is take everything with a grain of salt as a lot can change and progress in a week and hopefully your little one is just in there a month + week!!

See more(1)

See more comments

Related posts

Confessions of a crappy Christian
A book on real life talk about all the things Christian’s aren’t sure we’re supposed to say & why they matter to God #christiantiktok #booktok #jesus #lemon8
Xavia💋

Xavia💋

898 likes

Confessions of a Narcissist
1.) They were never confused, just acted like I was. 2.) They liked when you looked tired .... 3.) They never respected you, you stayed too available 4.) They came back because they hated the idea of you being free of them. 5.) Everytime you forgave them, they lost more respect for
MsKrisTalking

MsKrisTalking

99 likes

Confessions of a Serial Hobbyist
Hi my name is San and I am a serial hobbyist ✋🏿😭 I am a certified, card-carrying serial hobbyist. ADHD means I will passionately research, fund, and master a new craft for exactly 72 hours before my brain decides, “Okay, we’re done here,” and moves on to the next shiny thing. ​But look what a
SincerelySantrece

SincerelySantrece

39 likes

Case Closed. 🕵️‍♀️🔍: Confessions of a serial hobbyist. Pt. 2
Me: I finally finished the Gameboy Lego set and it's now on display 😁 My Mind: "I DEMAND A NEW OBSESSION" 😈 I was browsing through Amazon and in comes.... MURDLE! it’s basically like Clue met and fell in love with Sodoku and this is their love child. lol I'm fully living out
SincerelySantrece

SincerelySantrece

8 likes

A young woman with long, dark, wavy hair and a ring, looking directly at the camera. Text overlay reads: "CONFESSIONS OF A TIRED CHRISTIAN."
A young woman with curly dark hair and a nose piercing, lying down and looking at the camera. Text overlay reads: "I'M TIRED OF FEELING LIKE I'M IN AN ENDLESS LOOP OF SIN WITH NO ESCAPE."
A young woman with long, dark, wavy hair, lying in bed and looking at the camera with her hand near her chin. Text overlay reads: "I'M TIRED OF FEELING LIKE I'M NOT ENOUGH."
Confessions of a tired Christian 🤍
#fyplemon8 #christiancommunitytiktok #christiansoflemon8 #christiancommunitylemon8 #christiantiktok
TheChristianPrincess✝️

TheChristianPrincess✝️

204 likes

CONFESSIONS OF A TEENAGE DRAMA QUEEN
Confessions of a teenage drama queen by dyan sheldon “Confessions of a teenage drama queen” is the book version of the movie by the same name (Confessions of a teenage drama queen) It was originally published in 1999, and the movie was released in 2004. the story follows Lola Cep, an ambitious
monimoni

monimoni

18 likes

Confessions of a REAL teen mom:
I became a mom at 15 years old. Three months before my 16th birthday. Before I found out I was pregnant, I had a completely different plan for my life. When I turned 16, I was going to run away to California. Hitchhike my way there and start a brand new life. Yes… At 16.  Now that I’
🧽🫧 STORMY 🌻 LEIGH 🫧 🍳

🧽🫧 STORMY 🌻 LEIGH 🫧 🍳

71 likes

Confessions of a Baddie on a Budget
Hey, fellow fashionistas! Let's get real – looking like a boss babe doesn't have to break the bank! As a self-proclaimed baddie on a budget, I'm here to spill my secrets on how to slay the fashion game without emptying your wallet. Shein and Fashion Nova – my go-to destinations fo
Sham Balla ❤️

Sham Balla ❤️

388 likes

Time of confessions
Okay, so confession time! 🤫 Let's be honest, one of my FAVORITE therapies is shopping! 🛍️ But sometimes…adulting happens. 🙈 My bank account cries "uncle" before payday, and I have to be super tight with my spending. 😩 But then…TEMU happened! ✨ I can't even begin to tell you gu
les benizeri

les benizeri

220 likes

Madonna promoting “Confessions on a Dance Floor” in 2005
Throwing it back to @madonna promoting “Confessions on a Dance Floor” in honor of her announcing “Confessions on a Dance Floor: Part II”!!!! 🪩
MTV

MTV

6 likes

Basket for our NICU nurses! 🥰🌸💕
Hey Loves! I wanted to share a quick little basket that my put together for Tay’s wonderful NICU nurses. They gave us a white glove experience and ensured my baby always felt the love. This was just a tiny token to thank them. What would you have added to the basket? #nursegiftideas #nicumama
✨ Bianca Marchelle ✨

✨ Bianca Marchelle ✨

14 likes

The image displays an iron infusion setup with an IV pole holding bags of liquid, medical pumps, and a computer monitor. Overlaid text reads 'Iron infusions' and 'Anemic baddie', with a woman's image on the right, relating to iron deficiency treatment.
Confessions of a low iron baddie 😩
Are you feeling fatigued, dizzy, or experiencing shortness of breath? An iron infusion could be the answer! an iron infusion is a medical procedure where iron is delivered directly into the bloodstream through a vein. It can help increase energy levels, improve oxygen flow, and boost overall healt
Queen Misfitx3

Queen Misfitx3

63 likes

To ALL of the NICU MAMA’s
Prayer 🙏 In the name of Jesus I cancel Every negative report from doctors , nurses or anyone that has said anything negative about my babies current situation. GOD your word says in Proverbs 18:21 that death and life are in the power of the tongue. So I speak healing over my baby right now in JES
Saby Shantelle

Saby Shantelle

7 likes

A smiling blonde woman in a black tank top and jeans stands against a white background. The text "Confessions of a salon receptionist" is overlaid, introducing the article.
A desk with a plant, a lit candle, a picture frame, and a Stanley cup. The overlaid text reads: "1. if you are not a people person, it may not be for you."
Various hair and body care products, including shampoos, conditioners, and oils, are displayed on a round marble table. The text "2. being familiar with your products and retail is essential" is overlaid.
confessions of a salon receptionist
🛑 disclaimer 🛑: i love my job and am very grateful and thankful to have it. i am extremely fortunate to have found such an amazing work environment and team. i appreciate each and every day i come in and get to see all my girls. however, like any other job, you have good days and bad days. this is
landry

landry

1 like

Confessions of a struggling Christian
#fyp #christiancommunitytiktok #christiansoflemon8 #christiantiktok #christiancommunitylemon8
TheChristianPrincess✝️

TheChristianPrincess✝️

102 likes

Confessions of a Fashion Design Major✨️
Disclaimer: I went to an Art College in Mexico so idk how much of a difference there is between a Fashion School in Mexico and the United States. • At the beginning of our last year our teachers actually told us we didn't really need a fashion degree to apply to most corporate jobs. You eit
Raine🌈✨️

Raine🌈✨️

10 likes

A black textured tote bag rests on a light-colored perforated leather car seat. Pink text overlays read "CONFESSIONS OF A DIVORCE LAWYER" and "Favourite work bag," indicating the lawyer's preferred work accessory.
Confessions of a Divorce Lawyer
Confessions of a Divorce Lawyer 🍋 I wish I could say I show up to love stories the way everyone else does but I don’t. Weddings don’t make me emotional; they make me observant. Two kids under two? My mind skips to pressure, not perfection. A stay-at-home spouse? I hope they’re fulfilled but I qu
Emily

Emily

26 likes

Confessions of a shopaholic
One of my favorite things to do when I’m out of town is visit the shopping centers and see if I find anything I like. During this trip, I spotted some good fiends. I didn’t grab everything I wanted but I did grab a few gems #shopping #lifestyle #makeup #skincare
Myrvancia

Myrvancia

4 likes

Nicu Baby Breastmilk journey began
When your baby comes early, your milk becomes medicine. 💛My boy arrived at 36+5, and our journey began in the NICU. I couldn’t hold him right away but I could hand express Every drop I made was one step closer to him. If your baby came early, start your milk journey as soon as you can. Even a
ClaraBeingurBreastFriend

ClaraBeingurBreastFriend

4 likes

🍋📚 Confessions of a Reading Junkie: Dive into My B
Hey, fellow Lemon8ers! 🌟 Have you ever gotten lost in the pages of a book, so deeply that the world around you just fades away? Well, I’m here to confess: I’m a total book junkie, and I wouldn’t have it any other way! 📖✨ From the crack of a spine of a fresh hardcover, the musty scent of an old p
LaShanda Parker-BLK Biz Owner

LaShanda Parker-BLK Biz Owner

7 likes

A person in a black top and blue jeans holds a stack of new books. Pink text overlays read "confessions of a bookaholic (a haul)" with pink star doodles. The Lemon8 logo and username are visible in the bottom left corner.
A hand holds a bright yellow book titled "The Seven Year Slip" by Ashley Poston, featuring blue and white lettering with fruit illustrations. A text bubble states it's a book club pick with a predicted rating of four stars.
A hand holds a dark-covered book titled "Where's Molly" by H. Carlton, featuring a skull and floral design. A text bubble indicates it was already read on Kindle, received 5 stars, and a physical copy was desired.
confessions of a bookaholic 🛍️📖 a haul
yes I have a book shopping problem. what about it? all of the books I got, I’ve had my eye on for a while, and I cannot wait to get into them! ✨have you read any of these? what were your thoughts? ⤵️ #lemon8bookclub #lemon8bookchallenge #book #books #booktok #bookwormsoflemon8
kalees reads

kalees reads

255 likes

A person in a black hoodie with a green clover bracelet, looking towards the camera. The text 'Confessions of a struggling Christian' is overlaid, reflecting the article's theme.
A person with long dark hair, wearing a light yellow top, looking to the side. The overlaid text states, 'I talk about trusting God, but deep down I still want control.'
A person with long dark hair, wearing a white top, sitting in a car and looking forward. The text overlay reads, 'I know what's wrong but in that moment, I choose it anyway'.
Confessions of a struggling Christian
#christiantiktok #christiancommunitytiktok #christianlifestyle #christiancontentcreator #christianlemon8
TheChristianPrincess✝️

TheChristianPrincess✝️

354 likes

Confessions of a Publisher 🌹
Confessions of a Publisher 🌹 You never know what you’re capable of until you try. And sometimes that means starting before you feel ready. Writing books have increased my faith. I’m learning that being willing is the first step. God meets us there. If you’re holding back on something He
DeeKeesee

DeeKeesee

4 likes

An adult hand gently holds a tiny baby's foot, illustrating the initial challenge of a NICU stay for parents.
A baby's hand with an IV line and medical tubing on its head, highlighting the distress of constant medical procedures and the cries they cause.
A baby rests inside an incubator surrounded by various medical monitors displaying numbers, representing the anxiety from constant beeping, false alarms, and fears of medical events.
The worst parts of a NICU stay
This has been the hardest thing ive ever gone through. But we are slowly making it through. Its a marathon not a sprint. Taking it one day at a time. #nicu #preemie #nicuwarrior #preemiebaby #nicumom #nursing #preemieparent #lemon8 #preemiestrong #baby
mama

mama

45 likes

September - NICU Awarness Month
September is NICU Awareness Month, and my heart is with the heroes and the warriors who make this journey possible. To the incredible nurses and doctors—thank you for loving our babies like your own, for every gentle touch, late-night check, and word of hope that carried us through. My son spent hi
✨ Abby ✨

✨ Abby ✨

0 likes

Confessions in ink
#bookwormsoflemon8 #bookrecommendations #urbanfictionbooks #booktalk https://stan.store/confessionsinink
Tiah

Tiah

96 likes

Being a NICU mom isn’t easy…
To all my other NICU moms out there, YOU GOT THIS! Whether your time in the NICU is long or short, your story matters!! >>>Follow along for more tips and stories of my experience and how to manage all things NICU! #preemiestrong #nicuwarrior #28weeker #nicumom #unfiltere
Morgan Hawkins

Morgan Hawkins

21 likes

Two skeins of Loops & Threads Soft Classic acrylic yarn, one mint green and one orange, with a crochet hook, representing crochet WIPs and confessions.
A light green crocheted rectangular panel, part of a custom messenger bag, with a measuring tape showing its length.
A hand holding a narrow, orange crocheted strap featuring a thermal stitch, intended for a messenger bag.
A Crochet Girlie: WIP confessions
We all have WIP‘s. I have a few lying around my house right now, two of which include a fall cardigan, I am making for myself and then a commissioned messenger bag Perry, the platypus themed. In all honesty, what makes these WIP is the fact that I don’t wanna finish them at all. Regarding the m
Ravennn

Ravennn

794 likes

A smiling young boy, James Sebastian, wearing a pink polo shirt and khaki shorts, sits in a colorful ball pit. Text overlays ask, "What does your NICU baby look like now?" and state he was "Born at 25+1" gestational age.
NICU MOM 🙏🏼
Post pictures of your NICU warriors and their gestational age in the comments! To this day, we have no idea why my son was born so prematurely. I was on vacation visiting my mom in Florida - we live in Ohio. Insurance would not cover transportation to Cleveland because the NICU we were staying
Maria Lopez | NICU + SAHM 🤍

Maria Lopez | NICU + SAHM 🤍

1 like

My NICU baby 🥰🙏🏼
#gettoknowme #momlife #nicumama #nicumiracle #boymom
Maddie 🫶🏼

Maddie 🫶🏼

0 likes

Back when we were on our NICU journey
My baby was so smallll 🥹 #nicumama #momlife #2under2
Taniesha Tracey

Taniesha Tracey

230 likes

A white and gold 'Her Confession' perfume bottle by Lattafa, surrounded by green foliage and white flowers, with a white bust statue in the background. Text overlay reads 'Her Confession Review'.
A close-up of the white and gold 'Her Confession' perfume bottle, featuring white flowers in the foreground and a blurred white bust statue in the background.
A close-up of a white bust statue with gold accents, placed on a wooden surface with green foliage and white flowers, with the perfume bottle blurred in the background.
Her Confessions by Lattafa Review
Her Confession | Lattafa Creamy, milky, comfort in a bottle. I have been wearing this endlessly since it arrived a few days ago, and I'm absolutely obsessed. This has a bit of a cinnamon twist in the opening, almost like the most subtle scent of the leftover milk after a bowl of cinnamon to
Feel_Good_Tingz

Feel_Good_Tingz

50 likes

NICU baby agenda 😮‍💨
When your baby was in the NICU and now they expect you to stick with that specific schedule so they can continue to gain weight #nicumom #babyschedule #preemiemama #fyp #csectionmama
Madi 🩷

Madi 🩷

1 like

Confessions of a Perfectionist
I used to call it excellence. But if I’m honest… it was fear. Fear of being seen unfinished. Fear of disappointing people. Fear that if I didn’t get it just right, I wouldn’t be enough. Perfectionism told me: ✔ Try harder ✔ Do more ✔ Don’t mess up But it never gave me peace—only press
thetruthaboutGod

thetruthaboutGod

6 likes

Confessions of a Publisher 🌹
Not everyone will support you. And honestly? That's okay. I'm learning to get back to the why. Ask yourself what is your purpose on writing a book. This book wasn't for applause. It was an assignment. And when I remember that, the silence from some people doesn't sting a
DeeKeesee

DeeKeesee

0 likes

confessions of a former hotel inspector
👋 A little bit about little old me. Now that you know my background (from inspecting Frette linens and fine dining to compiling U.S. News travel rankings), where's the first place you would travel if you could stay like a hotel inspector?
travel editor EVT

travel editor EVT

1 like

Confessions of a Shopaholic 🖤
Realized everything is all black🖤black is just the easiest color to style and wear; it just gives old money. I am so excited for all of the pieces I got! #whatiboughtrecently #fallbasics #capsulewardrobe #allblackoutfits #allblackoutfit
elevatedbyanyah

elevatedbyanyah

5 likes

Nicu mamas
Where are all my nicu mamas?? It’s never how we expected our first few days/weeks/months would be with our newest little loves, but we are always so proud of their growth! #nicumom #preemieparent #preemiebaby #preemiemama #nicumama
Victoria Stauble

Victoria Stauble

24 likes

SAHM confessions🤭
Hope this helps another mom feel validated in their feelings🫶🏼 we’re all just surviving and doing our best. #sahmlife #motherhoodunplugged #relatablemom #rawmotherhood #sahmomsbelike
Brianna Bado

Brianna Bado

23 likes

Confessions of a Struggling Overachiever Episode 9
📍the floor next to my bed 12:58 am Thursday why are you opening this app right now?? I need to sleep. I need to fix the pivot on my forehand. I need to figure out a way to sign autographs without putting the paper on the floor of the tennis court and getting it covered in clay, even if it doe
Sumvruta ♥

Sumvruta ♥

7 likes

See more