Mother’s Day outfit 🖤 The weather was perfect for a silk shirt, and I took my mom to a Filipino restaurant she ended up loving. For the first time in years, my brother, my parents and I were all together again. At 41, I feel like I’m slowly building a new relationship with my mom. Softer.

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At 41, this is what I actually wore in April 🕸️🖤

april felt different in a quiet way, I slowed things down, without forcing it, spent more time at home, with my cats, with my person… and with myself. This was also the first month I actually leaned into fashion here, not trends just what I really wear. less performance, more honesty. Tried

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one of those pieces I kept saving for no reason, not anymore! 🖤 . . . #blackdress #over40fashion #alternativefashion #softgoth #spring

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just getting things done today 🖤 . . . #outfitoftheday #womanover40 #over40fashion #alternativefashion #softgoth

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just getting things done today 🖤 . . . #over40style #womanover40 #over40fashion #alternativefashion #softgoth

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just getting things done today 🖤 . . . #over40style #womanover40 #over40fashion #alternativefashion #softgoth

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Basically 🖤✨ . . #thevibeibringtothefunction

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Brazilian art in New York by Kobra, always proud to see a piece of Brazil on these walls 🇧🇷🖤 #brazil #nyc

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Loving this song TikTok picked for me 🖤🕷️

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NYC energy 😮‍💨🗽 . . . #nyclife

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Day 2 in NYC - walk in the Park, late afternoon drinks, a little chilly but worth it. 🖤🗽 #darkfeminineenergy #softgoth #alternativefashion #darkfashion #allblackfit

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This is what I wear when comfort is all I need 🖤 #darkfeminineenergy #softgoth #alternativefashion #darkfashion #allblackfit

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NYC day one. Needed to walk miles, still needed to look like myself 🖤 #darkfeminineenergy #softgoth #allblackeverything #alternativefashion #darkfashion

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New York was colder than I expected, layering changes everything 🖤 . #altfashion #softgoth #alternativegirl #over40style #foryour

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Modern Peruvian cuisine for the first time and I loved it 🖤 . . . #softgoth #altfashion #over40style #alternativegirl #newyork

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First spring light in New York 🗽🖤 #alternative #spring2026 #nyc

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Welcoming spring in New York this weekend, the closet can wait 🖤😁 #altgirl #nyc #spring2026

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First time installing peel & stick wallpaper, the first panel is always the scariest.Now I want this in every room 🤭 #softgoth #catmomlife #gothdecor #gothhome #gothicstyle

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The first coat of black is always terrifying, it never looks right… until it does. 🤦🏻‍♀️ #softgoth #catmomlife #gothdecor #gothhome #gothicstyle

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Cat Bathroom Makeover for my spoiled babies 🐈‍⬛🖤 #softgoth #catmomlife #gothicstyle #gothdecor #gothhome

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