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Why is this person

This is the title of a book from Mr. Topffy Bradshaw.

If you want to understand yourself, your lover and someone you don't love more, read this book.

Why is it important to understand

I think understanding ourselves will make us know ourselves better.

Improve yourself as you should. Appreciate yourself more.

Be more gentle with yourself and love yourself as you are.

At the same time, understanding others will prevent us from closing the door on them.

Don't decide anyone too soon. Don't hate anyone too easily.

Hate anyone. We are tired. Hate ourselves. We are even tired.

Finally, we need to live together with ourselves.

With someone else like him. 🥰🩷# Books to read # Book drug sign

2025/9/21 Edited to

... Read moreหนังสือ "ทำไมเป็นคนแบบนี้" โดยท๊อปฟี่ แบรดชอว์ ไม่เพียงช่วยให้เข้าใจธรรมชาติของตนเอง แต่ยังเสนอแนวทางที่ลึกซึ้งในการพัฒนาความสัมพันธ์ระหว่างคน ด้วยคำถามที่ชวนคิด "ทำไมเป็นคนแบบนี้" ผู้เขียนสะท้อนให้เห็นว่าการทำความเข้าใจตัวเองคือกุญแจสำคัญที่จะนำไปสู่การยอมรับและรักตัวเองในแบบฉบับที่แท้จริง การที่เรารู้จักและเข้าใจจุดแข็ง จุดอ่อน รวมถึงความรู้สึกที่แท้จริง จะช่วยให้เราปรับปรุงตัวเองได้อย่างเหมาะสม ลดความเหนื่อยล้าทางอารมณ์เพราะการเกลียดตัวเองหรือคนอื่นที่ไม่จำเป็น นอกจากนี้ หนังสือเล่มนี้ยังพูดถึงการเข้าใจผู้อื่นว่าเป็นเรื่องสำคัญไม่แพ้กัน เพราะการลดทิฐิและการไม่ตัดสินใจใครอย่างรวดเร็ว ช่วยสร้างความสัมพันธ์ที่ดีขึ้น และทำให้เราเปิดใจรับฟังและอยู่ร่วมกับผู้อื่นได้อย่างมีความสุข ในช่วงเวลาที่เรารู้สึกโกรธหรือเศร้าใจ เหมือนที่หนังสือกล่าวไว้ว่า การแสดงออกถึงความรู้สึกจริง ๆ เป็นการบำบัดและยอมรับความเป็นตัวเอง แนวคิดของ Mindfulness หรือการตระหนักรู้ในสิ่งที่เกิดขึ้นรอบตัวและภายในใจ เป็นส่วนสำคัญของกระบวนการนี้ เพราะจะช่วยให้เราสามารถรับรู้ความรู้สึกและอารมณ์ต่าง ๆ ได้อย่างไม่ตัดสิน และยังสามารถบริหารจัดการกับความผิดหวังหรือเจ็บปวดได้อย่างมีสติ สำหรับใครที่กำลังสงสัยในตัวเอง หรืออยากเข้าใจคนรอบข้างมากขึ้น หนังสือ "ทำไมเป็นคนแบบนี้" เป็นเครื่องมือที่ทรงคุณค่าที่จะช่วยให้ค้นพบคำตอบเหล่านั้น ผ่านการเล่าเรื่องและคำแนะนำที่เป็นมิตร ถือเป็นหนึ่งในหนังสือที่น่าอ่านและน่าพกติดตัวไว้ เพราะความเข้าใจนี้จะช่วยให้เรามีความสุข และพร้อมที่จะอยู่ร่วมกับตัวเองและผู้อื่นอย่างแท้จริง

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