My patient’s HUGE mistake

Okay, I need to vent about something that drives me absolutely insane as a nurse in the ER.

We all get patients who are genuinely hurting, and we treat them fast. But then you get the ones who are clearly fishing for narcotics, and honestly, it’s insulting.

I had this guy come in once complaining of "the worst abdominal pain EVER.""He was moaning, yelling that it was a 10/10, gripping the bedrails, doing the whole dramatic performance. I was trying to get an IV started in his arm to draw labs, and he was still carrying on, but here is the part that gave him away:

When I went to sanitize the spot and stabilize his vein, I actually poked him a little too hard with the needle, and he didn't even flinch. Didn't stop his "pain moaning,"didn't twitch, nothing. A real 10/10 pain patient would have probably screamed or yanked their arm back out of instinct, but he was completely focused on keeping up the fake moaning performance.

The non-verbal cues always betray the verbal ones. If someone is claiming a ridiculous amount of pain but is scrolling through TikTok and ordering pizza, you just know. It makes me feel sad and confused that people will risk their health just to try and get a Dilaudid prescription.

Fellow healthcare workers, or even patients, have you ever seen a contradiction that was just way too obvious?

#AskLemon8 #LetsChat #HealthcareConfessions

2025/12/2 Edited to

... Read moreWow, that story really resonates! As someone who's spent time in healthcare settings, I've definitely seen variations of patients attempting to exaggerate or even invent symptoms. It's a tough spot for healthcare workers, balancing genuine compassion with the need to protect resources and ensure appropriate care. Beyond the classic 'no flinch during an IV start' – which is surprisingly common – there are so many subtle (and not-so-subtle) cues that can raise red flags. For me, one of the most obvious signs a patient might be lying about pain is when their verbal description doesn't match their non-verbal body language. Someone claiming a 10/10 pain level, curled up in a fetal position, yet perfectly still and calmly chatting on their phone between moans, just doesn't add up. Or even worse, the patient who's screaming bloody murder, but when you gently press on an area they claim is excruciating, they don't even twitch or guard. It's those inconsistencies that really stand out. Another common scenario is the 'drug-seeking' behavior. This often involves very specific requests for certain high-potency narcotics, or a patient who can't pinpoint their pain but is incredibly articulate about the type of medication they need. They might also have a very clear story that seems rehearsed, or they'll be very vague about their medical history when pressed for details. Sometimes, they'll claim to have lost their medication or had it stolen, often at inconvenient times like late at night or on weekends when pharmacies are closed, making it harder for staff to verify. It's not just about trying to get meds, though. Sometimes, people fake pain or exaggerate symptoms to get out of work, to receive disability benefits, or even for attention. While these situations can be frustrating, it's crucial to remember that underlying issues often drive such behaviors, whether it's addiction, mental health struggles, or socioeconomic pressures. It's a complex problem that impacts everyone in the healthcare system. The implications of faking pain go beyond just wasting a healthcare worker's time. It can lead to misdiagnosis of actual conditions, as doctors spend time chasing symptoms that aren't real, potentially delaying critical care for a genuine issue. It also erodes trust between patients and providers, making it harder for those truly in need to be believed. And it consumes valuable resources – staff time, medications, diagnostic tests – that could be better used for patients with legitimate emergencies. For anyone working in healthcare, it's a constant challenge to remain empathetic while also being critically observant. Documenting everything, including those non-verbal cues and inconsistencies, is vital. And for patients, honest and clear communication about your pain and medical history is always the best approach. Healthcare providers are there to help, but they need accurate information to do their best. My advice? Don't risk your health or credibility by trying to game the system. Be honest, describe your pain clearly, and trust that the medical team will work with you to find relief and the right treatment plan.

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You do realize the stomach pain could’ve been so bad that he didn’t feel much of anything else. You look dumb

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Candy Coated Eyes

it scares me that ppl like you are in Healthcare. literally judging ppl on how they react to pain. when im in pain I shut down and would be that person disassociating on the phone trying to distract myself from the pain. go take some classes on empathy

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