Had the first child!! At 30, I thought Chill, but...
At first, before having children, was very confident. ‼️
...It is thought that the age of 30 is getting ready in many ways to raise a beautiful, childish child as a slow-living mother...
But cut to the reality that now is fighting life, but "life fights back" every day, Mom! 😂
📍 a straight review without blessing. What's there? Let's see...
🔻 30 + is quite old!!
From having stayed up late
When they had their first six months, they barely slept.
To train you to sleep long, you become a sleeper because you're worried you're awake.
Not enough sleep, easy to get tired, easy to get tired, no time to exercise, even more without strength!!
The 30-year-old is not conducive to little sleep. 😭
🔻 ready enough is available, but energy is not!!
At 30, we might start with money, baby supplies, maturity, emotional control or care for any child.
But the most "scarce" thing is energy!!
The more you start walking, running, starting to want to explore the world, just follow my mother, panting, and the wind will catch > <
Secretly thinking a lot, "Knowing this, at the age of 20, would it be better?" 🫠
🔻 a very heavy swing hormone. Almost depressed, but back!!
Normally Ming is calm, calm, cool, emotional.
But when you see hormones after birth plus accumulated fatigue, some days you sit and look at your baby, tears run away.
(Which mother is the same?)
The mood is faster than the stock. 😆
* * But there are still advantages * *
✅ maturity, emotional control.
Although tired of blood roots
But the advantage of having a baby at 30 for Ming is
"I'm mature enough not to freak out on you."
(Even though my heart has gone far, haha)
Ming feels more understanding of the world, more patient, even though he is usually very patient.
Never broke at the child once!! But hit with the husband, maybe hahahaha
📍 Conclusion...Having a baby at 30 isn't as chill as I thought!
Tired of the back pain, broken eyes
But...When he sees his face smiling, or when he sleeps, fertilizer (which is the calmest time)
The fatigue was fleeting (and then came back tired when he woke up, haha).
* * Do you have your first child at the age of 30 +? Let's share your "No chill" quickly. I want to find a friend with a back pain! 👇👇
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