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Long distance love ✈️ I must survive!!✨

When meeting the right person, but the pace of life is a little hell to give up the opportunity in life, leaving a scholarship for men shouldn't, so our girlfriend is working in Japan, but we got a scholarship to study in Taiwan, so we agreed with our girlfriend who was just dating for a few months to try out the Long Distance Relationship (the kind that often finds a way to see each other)!

And after two years, it's like lying, and today we're going to summarize what the trick is or what we're doing to make this relationship work. ✌🏼

1.LDR has a clear goal → Our is to talk about going to school for two years and getting back together permanently, because age is no longer a small one. Let's give evidence.

2. There is always the next trip → You don't have to spend a year, but before you finish this trip, you have to "know where the next trip went. When?"

🚫 Don't let Keng 🚫 don't let the question "When will I see you again?"

For example, we met on this trip, we have to know where the next trip is over, when, because the problem is not the long wait, but the problem is "don't know when to wait."

3. Quality together time → Discipline that does not force both of us and our fans adjust a lot, perfect to call each other every day, maybe some short, some long, some 10-40 minutes, really focused.

But if you're busy, you don't have to be serious. Spare some, don't put too much pressure on each other, don't force, emphasize sustainability, do it consistently.

4. Quality alone time → Trust, honor, encourage each other to live comfortably and be happy with the success of the other person.

5. Be honest with each other, but be honest with ourselves → At first, we were very bent because we wanted him to call often when he was busy and lived happily with his friends, we were very upset, stupid, and then it came out when he called until he became uncomfortable.

One day he said, "Baby, you know you make me want to call you less and less every time I call," 🙀 we were so bright-eyed that, uh, what do we want - he's happy, haha.

Every relationship, communication is important, but how to communicate and timing is as important as what you want to communicate. If you do it right, big things are smaller. Anything can be talked about.

6. Be kind to each other → No one is 100% like us when we meet, the living are intentionally very good to each other, appreciate the time spent together, put down some frustration because we do not see each trip every day, do not spoil the atmosphere.

🌸 2 years ago, now back together, looking back and feeling that the two of us were very lucky to have the opportunity to live together for six months before dating on a long-distance basis for another two years, because the six months made each other known enough to trust each other, and the long-distance relationship made each other learn in many ways. It proved the consistency, the love for each other, trained us to communicate more, trained to be kind to each other, went through many obstacles, traveled together many places, knew each other's true identities faster.

When we got back together today, we thought that long-distance dating made us more confident, and the relationship was better than the two of us in a way that had never been through LDR before. 🥰

# Love long distance # ldr # Double life # Foreigner fans # Japanese maid

2025/10/29 Edited to

... Read moreการคบกันแบบรักทางไกล (Long Distance Relationship หรือ LDR) นั้นไม่ใช่เรื่องง่าย แต่ด้วยความตั้งใจและการวางแผนที่ดีอย่างที่เจ้าของประสบการณ์ในบทความได้แชร์มา สามารถช่วยให้ความรักนี้ยังคงสดใสและมั่นคงได้ หนึ่งในเคล็ดลับสำคัญคือการมีเป้าหมายร่วมกันที่ชัดเจน อย่างเช่นการตกลงกันว่าจะเรียนต่อ 2 ปีและกลับมาอยู่ด้วยกันถาวร ซึ่งช่วยสร้างแรงผลักดันและทำให้ทั้งสองฝ่ายมีความหวังในวันข้างหน้า นอกจากนี้ การมีทริปเจอกันเป็นระยะ ๆ อย่างสม่ำเสมอ เช่น การวางแผนทริปต่อไปทันทีหลังจบทริปปัจจุบัน เป็นการลดความเคว้งคว้างและความกังวลเรื่องการรอคอย ซึ่งเป็นปัญหาที่ผู้ที่อยู่ในความสัมพันธ์แบบนี้มักพบเจอ เรื่องของคุณภาพเวลาที่ใช้ร่วมกันก็สำคัญมาก ไม่ว่าจะเป็นเวลาที่คอลโทรศัพท์ด้วยกันอย่างมีสมาธิ หรือการให้เกียรติและสนับสนุนให้กันออกไปใช้ชีวิตอย่างมีความสุข เจ้าของประสบการณ์เน้นว่าการสื่อสารที่ดีและไม่กดดันกันเกินไปนั้นช่วยเสริมสร้างความสัมพันธ์ให้น่าอยู่และยั่งยืน ความซื่อสัตย์ต่อกันและต่อตัวเองก็เป็นอีกปัจจัยที่ไม่ควรมองข้าม เพราะการแสดงความรู้สึกอย่างจริงใจแต่ไม่ทำร้ายความรู้สึกของอีกฝ่าย ช่วยสร้างบรรยากาศที่ดีในการสื่อสารและลดความอึดอัดใจ สุดท้าย การใจดีและเอาใจใส่กันในเวลาที่ได้เจอกันจริง ๆ ก็ช่วยลดความขัดแย้งและทำให้ทุกทริปมีความหมายมากขึ้น เหมือนกับที่เจ้าของบทความเล่าว่าการได้ใช้ชีวิตร่วมกันก่อนเริ่ม LDR นั้นทำให้พวกเขารู้จักกันดีขึ้นและความรักแน่นแฟ้นกว่าเดิม จากประสบการณ์จริงที่ผ่านมานี้ เราจะเห็นได้ว่าความสำเร็จของรักทางไกลไม่ได้ขึ้นอยู่กับระยะทาง แต่ขึ้นอยู่กับความตั้งใจ ความเชื่อใจ และการสื่อสารที่ดีของทั้งสองฝ่าย นอกจากนี้ การประหยัดค่าใช้จ่ายและความพยายามในการหาทางเจอกันบ่อย ๆ แม้จะเจออุปสรรคเรื่องการเดินทาง ก็ถือเป็นเรื่องที่สร้างกำลังใจและความผูกพันที่เข้มแข็งมากขึ้น สำหรับใครที่กำลังเผชิญกับความสัมพันธ์แบบ LDR หรือสนใจที่จะเริ่มต้น ควรเตรียมตัวในเรื่องการวางแผนมีเป้าหมายร่วมกัน ผ่อนคลายกับช่วงเวลาที่ต้องอยู่ไกล และสร้างช่วงเวลาคุณภาพให้แก่กันไม่ว่าจะทางโทรศัพท์หรือแบบเจอกันจริง ๆ สิ่งเหล่านี้จะช่วยให้ความรักของคุณไม่เพียงแค่รอด แต่ยังเติบโตไปได้อย่างแข็งแรงและมั่นคงในระยะยาว

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