90% of the things we judge people for? Not our damn business. I mean it when I say I genuinely don’t care. Not about what she’s wearing. Not about who he’s dating. Not about how they live, love, or survive. I don’t need to agree. I don’t need to understand. I just need to mind my own and le

(aka the baddie in the bedroom) 1. What does submission mean to me — beyond the bedroom? How do I express my submissive nature in daily life (or do I)? 2. What kind of Dominant makes me feel safest and most alive? Be honest, baby. Brat tamers, caregivers, sadists, soft Doms? 3. What are my har

By Menthol Honey 1. No Contract, No Clarity If there’s no agreement or even a casual list of dos/don’ts, run. A real dom values your safety and shared structure. Sexy isn’t sloppy. 2. The Power Dynamic Never Turns Off Submissive ≠ servant 24/7. If he can’t turn the dynamic off or resp

We’ve all been there. That man who says, “I’m not ready for a relationship… but don’t talk to anyone else.” 🙄 He’s emotionally unavailable , not now, not yet, maybe never. But because we like him? We try anyway. And what happens? We end up in a never-ending situationship with a man who’s getti

Serving you pearls, peroxide, and a wake-up call. 1. You’re always right… even when you’re dead wrong. Gaslight, gatekeep, girlfriend? 2. You “fix” him—then resent him for needing fixing. Babe, he was broken when you bought him. 3. You’ve got receipts… but no accountability. Carrying sc

This is coming from experience. I had a friend sleep with my ex, copy my style, talk behind my back… and I still thought she was my bestie. Never again. Protect your peace, babe. 1. She copies your whole personality like it’s on sale. Suddenly she walks like you, talks like you, but still c

1. You’re Cannibalizing Your Own Views TikTok’s not gonna push all 20—you’re just competing with yourself. Chill. 2. Burnout Is Real, Babe Posting like a maniac every day is a one-way trip to “I hate this app” city. 3. Quality Over Chaos No one remembers your 14th meh video. Make i

You seem to really like the other cards I made so I made one more !!! I’m trying to figure out what I want to print this on for my daughter ! I think card stock ? PS am I the only one who thinks we need more images of glam black housewives ?! #recipes #homemade #biscuits #recipeideas

You don’t need to shrink, shave, or shapeshift to get a man. Real ones don’t want a pick-me—they want a you. 💄✨ This is your sign to wear the glasses, order the steak, disagree boldly, and never laugh at a joke that isn’t funny. #TheAntiPickMeFiles are open 🖤 #mentholhoney #hotgirlsayno

Because crunchy curls? Not in this economy. I’ve tried a million mousses, and most of them left my hair feeling like ramen noodles in a drought. This one? Light, fluffy, zero flake, and my curls actually bounce instead of beg for moisture. Smells like “I have my life together” and holds like I’

Cuz she hates trump ??? I mean… is that bad ?? And if you feel shammed about it, maybe it’s because you know what’s going on is wrong. Because she yells at you to clean ? Okay …? Then don’t watch her ? I don’t get it. Why do we have to cancel everyone I mean I’m not

Your ex was a looser. I know it. Your mom knows it. And chat gpt knows it. Here are some prompts for your chat gpt to help YOU know it. 1. “Hey ChatGPT, pretend you’re my brutally honest best friend. Can you list 10 reasons why I deserve better than my toxic ex?” Because sometimes we need the trut

…. The Menthol Honey Way 1. Go for a walk and pretend you’re storming off from a toxic man. Bonus points if your playlist is petty. 2. Write a journal entry like it’s a breakup letter to your bad habits. “Dear procrastination, it’s not me, it’s 1000% you.” 3. Unfollow every “

Idc what any man says, he watches. I always hear women say “my man doesn’t, it’s a boundary.” Maam it could be a FELONY and he’d still do it. They all do it. They don’t consider it cheating. And if they say they don’t THEY ARE LYING. I personally don’t have an issue with corn, but I think it’s craz

So I’m making a digital cookbook for my daughters. This is another one !! Salmon croquettes #lemon8contest #AskLemon8

YALL I made these on a whim and HOW CUTE IS THIS I want to make a digital cookbook for my daughter. I think it be cute. She loves to cook and I made this. I wanna make like all my grandmas recipes What do you guys think ? Do you think in 20 years she’ll actully like a digital one or should

There from Hellbound leather goods on Etsy #fashionfinds #etsyfinds #handmade #westerngrunge

Will forever have me in a chokehold #walmartfinds #walmart #walmartfashion #walmartfashionfind

It’s been a great run and honestly? I LOVED it. Always will. But y’all… it’s time for a change. And here’s why: 1. I’m bored. Yup. Shocked me too. But this look? This vibe? It’s stale. I need new drama. 2. Everyone’s doing it. And not in a cute “we’re all hot together” way — more like “I