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จากประสบการณ์ตรงที่เคยเจอคนดราม่าในชีวิตส่วนตัว การใช้ Gray Rock Method คือคำตอบที่ได้ผลมากที่สุด วิธีนี้ไม่จำเป็นต้องเผชิญหน้าหรือมีปัญหาใหญ่โต แค่ทำตัวให้น่าเบื่อและตอบกลับสั้นๆ โดยไม่แสดงอารมณ์ใดๆ ทำให้ผู้ที่ชอบสร้างเรื่องวุ่นวายรู้สึกเบื่อหน่ายและพลังลดลง สิ่งที่ยากที่สุดคือการฝึกใจให้สงบจริงๆ เพราะถ้าทำแค่ผิวเผิน คนดราม่าจะรู้สึกได้และอาจยิ่งยั่วให้เกิดดราม่าเพิ่มขึ้น เมื่อใช้ Gray Rock Method ต้องตอบข้อความหรือคำพูดที่ทำให้ไม่สบายใจด้วยคำง่ายๆ อย่าง “โอเค” “ได้” หรือ “เข้าใจแล้ว” แล้วเลี่ยงการให้ข้อมูลเพิ่มหรือแสดงความรู้สึก อีกจุดสำคัญคืออย่าทำวิธีนี้ในทุกความสัมพันธ์ เพราะหากเราต้องใช้ทุกวันกับคนๆ นั้น ถือเป็นสัญญาณว่าควรพิจารณาการรักษาความสัมพันธ์นั้นไว้หรือไม่ บางครั้งการเลือกออกห่างอาจเป็นทางเลือกที่ดีที่สุดสำหรับสุขภาพจิตของเรา สำหรับใครที่กำลังเจอสถานการณ์เช่นนี้ ลองบันทึกวิธีนี้ไว้ใช้ในยามจำเป็น เพราะนอกจากจะช่วยลดความเครียดแล้ว ยังช่วยรักษาพลังงานให้เราได้โฟกัสกับเรื่องสำคัญในชีวิตมากขึ้นอีกด้วย

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