The wounds of "waiting."

The wounds of "waiting" attract vague relationships so that the wounds are seen and healed.

Sometimes what motivates us

Not a slow answer.

Not a postponement.

But it was the "wounds of waiting" that were touched.

Someone who used to wait...

• Waiting for love

• Waiting for answers

• Waiting to be selected

• Wait for someone to be clear.

The nervous system will remember that feeling.

And when a similar event happens,

The body will always respond before reason.

It will whisper that

"I don't want to go back to that point."

And then the defense mechanism will work immediately.

1. Withdraw first

2. Cut first

3. Act like you don't care first

So that you don't have to "wait."

But the deep truth is,

The little boy in us is afraid of being dumped.

Try asking yourself gently.

When feeling restrained with obscurity

Is it like a past feeling?

Like when

• Someone doesn't choose us.

• We wait for answers that don't come.

• We waited and finally disappointed.

If yes,

This isn't about him.

This is an old scar that is begging for an embrace.

People who are afraid of waiting.

Often attracted to relationships with ambiguous ranges.

It's not because of the bullying universe.

But because our energy still believes

"I have to win.

I have to wait.

I have to prove

I have to be patient. "

To be loved.

And as long as this belief lasts,

We will accidentally enter an unclear dynamic.

Because it's familiar to our nervous system.

The remedy does not start by forcing the other party to clear.

It starts by talking to yourself.

"You don't have to wait for value anymore.

If he wants to come, he'll come.

If he doesn't come, you still have a loving life. "

When we stop believing

"I have to wait to be loved."

The restraint will gradually ease.

A stable relationship.

It doesn't take a chance to prove its value.

And real growth.

Not to speed up the cut to get a faster answer.

But to live with ignorance, uncertainty.

Without the heart throwing itself along the way, the same way.

😍

With love from the heart

Wicker teacher

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