We all need that friend.. 🥹😫🤞🏼❤️
Send this to your ride or die 🥹🤞🏼👯♀️💗
If you want to grow, you need people in your circle who want to grow too, and will accept you when you do. 🌱 🪴
I want people around me who are trying to level up, be the best possible version of themselves, jump in the cold water and make BOLD moves.
I remember what it was like to play small. I had people all around me playing small too. They were shocked, negative, and unsupportive whenever I was about to do things like:
- quit the job I hated ❌
- start my own business 📈
- move from NJ to California ✈️
and those are 3 of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
As corny as it sounds, your vibe truly attracts your tribe. And if it means my circle is a lot smaller because
I’m selective of who I keep around me, that’s okay. Because the thing about being my friend is … I expect the same high-level, ride or die energy that I’m willing to bring to our friendship. 🫰🏼💥
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It's so true what they say: your vibe truly attracts your tribe. I've learned that firsthand, and it's not just about having friends, but having the right kind of friends – those who truly lift you up and push you towards your best self. We all need a friend like THIS, someone who will encourage you to take those scary leaps, even when others might tell you to play it safe. They're the ones who give you the confidence to step out of your comfort zone and into your growth zone. Think about the old adage, 'you are the average of your five closest friends.' It sounds simple, but it's profoundly impactful. If your closest connections constantly celebrate your ambitions, offer constructive feedback, and genuinely want to see you thrive, you're much more likely to step out of your comfort zone and achieve your goals. On the flip side, if your circle is full of negativity or people who are content with playing small, it can inadvertently hold you back. I remember when I was making those big changes – quitting my job, starting my business, moving across the country – and the unsupportive comments felt like heavy anchors. That's when I truly understood the importance of self-development in making decisions regarding friendship and relationships. My personal growth demanded a change in my social circle, not because I stopped caring about old friends, but because my growth journey required a different kind of support system. So, how do you find or cultivate these 'ride or die' friends? First, look for sincerity. Do they celebrate your wins as much as their own? Are they willing to tell you the straight up truth, even if it's hard to hear, because they genuinely want the best for you? A true friend will not only cheer you on but also provide a safe space to discuss your fears and insecurities, helping you navigate challenges instead of just validating your comfort zone. It's about finding people who inspire you to grow, not just maintain the status quo. To attract these kinds of relationships, you also need to embody that energy yourself – be the supportive, ambitious friend you wish to have. It's not about expanding your social circle just for the sake of it, but rather focusing on the quality of your connections. A smaller, highly supportive circle of friends can provide a far greater sense of belonging and confidence than a large network of acquaintances. These friends become invaluable pillars in your growth journey, giving you the courage you need to make bold moves and pursue self-discovery. They help you feel accepted and appreciated for who you are becoming, making the journey of levelling up feel not only possible but exciting. The long-term benefits of such connections extend beyond career success; they enrich your emotional well-being, provide resilience during tough times, and truly refresh the soul. Share this with your ride or die who gets it and helps you thrive!
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