I grew up and kept my true self.

Growing up as a Scene kid, I always felt that my identity was vibrant and non-negotiable, even as life’s responsibilities began to pile up. When I became a mom to twins, I was determined not to let motherhood erase the quirks and passions that defined me. Being a busy twin mom means my days are full and hectic, but it also forces me to prioritize my physical and mental wellness. Roller derby, for example, is more than just a sport to me; it's a way to stay active, release stress, and maintain my unique sense of self. Navigating the corporate world wasn't an easy shift while holding onto my style — like still rocking heavy eyeliner — but it has taught me resilience and adaptability. Renovating my house myself is another passion that allows me to channel creativity and build a space that's truly mine and my family’s. These experiences prove that motherhood doesn’t have to mean losing your individuality. Maintaining a happy marriage for over ten years has been another cornerstone of my journey. It’s about mutual support and understanding, which helps me stay grounded. I’ve learned that being authentic and honest with myself and others is key, which ties back into the phrase “MY CONTENT ISN'T A CARICATURE OF MY LIFE. NIRVA HONESTY ALWAYS.” This honesty enriches every part of my life and helps me connect deeply with others. For anyone feeling pressured to conform or change drastically after life’s milestones, I encourage you to embrace the complexity of your identity. It’s possible to evolve, grow, and take care of your responsibilities while still honoring the core of who you are. Let’s continue this journey together, staying true to ourselves and supporting one another along the way.