Trying again.....

After losing Skye, a series of doctors visits were made in order to find out what happened.

Here's what we know:

- I have a gene known as the MTHFR gene which causes a blood clotting disorder. This means that it is possible that I have or did have blood clotting during my pregnancy that contributed to the loss of our baby girl. 💔

- I have a folate difficiency. Folate is very important for a baby's growth and development.

- I have a Vitamin B deficiency (my body doesn't have enough B6 or B12 to process folic acid, which means that I cannot take normal prenatals as my body cannot absorb them).

In order to prepare my body for a healthy pregnancy my doctor and I decided a few changes need to be made, and I started adding new vitamins to my daily routine in order to make sure I am healthy the next time I become pregnant.

Prenatal with Quatrafolic - this should help with my folate deficiency (as it is a form of folate that is already activated and doesn't need to be converted the same way folic acid does) so that baby can grow and be healthy.

Vitamins B6 and B12 - this should also help with my deficiency since my body was lacking both of these

Baby aspirin - taking this during my pregnancy should help with my blood clotting issues and hopefully help make sure blood flow is good so baby can get all the nutrients!

I'm sharing this in case anyone else is struggling and needs help understanding what may be going wrong and causing miscarriages. Had I not done all of the proper testing, I may have never known what was going on (not just for the sake of the baby, but for my own health as well).

My doctor also informed me that I should take a few months to allow all of my vitamins to help before trying for a baby again, so after 3 months of doing all of this we will be trying again.

We are praying that this will help us become parents!

*Please take note that I am not a medical professional. This is simply what me and my doctor have discussed and found that is right for me. I am only trying to help those who may not know what to test for or what questions to ask at an appointment. Please always ask a doctor before taking any kind of medication to make sure it is what you need!

2024/10/28 Edited to

... Read moreNavigating through pregnancy loss can be a profound journey for many. Understanding the significance of prenatal care and the proper vitamins plays a crucial role in preparing for future pregnancies. The MTHFR gene, connected with blood clotting disorders, is something many may not be aware of, but it can significantly affect pregnancy outcomes. Folate deficiency can impact a baby's growth and development. Therefore, incorporating supplements like Quatrafolic, which is a bioactive form of folate, can be essential, especially when the body struggles to convert traditional folic acid. Additionally, Vitamins B6 and B12 support overall bodily functions, helping enhance energy levels and wellness during pregnancy. It’s also essential to consider other medical recommendations such as baby aspirin for those with clotting issues, which aids in maintaining healthy blood flow. Consulting with healthcare professionals can help tackle questions about personal health and ensure the right direction is taken. Finally, patience is key. Taking time for the body to adjust after a loss while ensuring proper nutritional support will hopefully lead to a successful future pregnancy.

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I just saw you recently had a baby boy!!! Congratulations!!! I forgot to add I have a b deficiency too (which typically goes along with lupus anticoagulant syndrome) & I take weekly b12 shots I give myself at home. The shots work out better than me bc my body had a hard time absorbing vitamins I took orally. Just thought I’d mention that in case it’s something you may be interested in asking your dr about.

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I have lupus anticoagulant syndrome that sounds a lot like what you have bc mine caused multiple miscarriages & it causes me to be more susceptible to clots. I had 5 losses before having my 3 boys so I can totally relate. If you have lupus anticoagulant syndrome you can do immunotherapy to make it go into remission. I haven’t done that yet but we’re trying to get it approved through my insurance now. I hope things work out for you & you have a healthy full term pregnancy soon. I remember being in the stage you’re at now & it’s not easy. 🩷

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