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I'm tired from trying too hard → To me who is loved without overdoing it

In 2026,

Even if you don't try hard

In a year where I can be loved.

Even though I'm doing it properly

Even though I care about you

Even though I've been patient and trying

"Why not be satisfied"

Do you have that feeling?

It's not because you're not good enough.

you have to work hard to be loved.

I just lived.

You don't have to prove it anymore.

You don't have to force it.

You don't have to be small.

When you end your life putting yourself off,

The way you are loved changes naturally.

in 2026

✔ tiring relationship

✔ safe place

✔ me.

You can choose.

👉,

Please read it again on the day when you feel like you're going to do your best again.

# 2026

The woman who is loved

How to love yourself

Self-affirmation

# Don't overdo it

2025/12/29 Edited to

... Read more私は過去に、頑張りすぎてしまい心が折れそうになった経験があります。そんな時、#04の「頑張りすぎない。 我慢しすぎない。 心地よさを、生活の基準にする。」という言葉にハッとしました。無理して我慢を重ねるのではなく、自分の心地よさを大切にすることで、初めて自分を認められるようになりました。 また、#05にある「自分を大切にすると、自然と大切にされるようになる。愛は、無理をやめたところから始まる。」というメッセージは私の人生を変えました。自分の価値は他人に決めてもらうものではなく、自分で選び、認めることが本当の愛され方につながります。 2026年は『疲れない関係』『安心できる場所』『そのままの私』を選びましょう。小さくならず、自分のペースで生きることがいかに大切かを実感しています。もしまた頑張りすぎてしまいそうになったら、このメッセージを何度でも読み返してください。あなたも無理しなくても愛される人生を歩めると信じています。

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