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Silence is the last thing of feelings.

On a day when our words are meaningless,

Not arguing, not retaliating.

Doesn't explain too much...

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This is a way to get through the heavy times without getting hurt more.

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We're starting to know that "ending at ourselves" is not tragic.

But it is to keep your heart as light as possible, to be comfortable with yourself, even if no one understands.

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Because finally, we have to live with our own feelings. 😊✨

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Silence is the last thing in feelings.

"Silence is the last thing of feelings."

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# Love yourself # Finish where we are the lightest # Heal heart # Nui share heart power

2025/12/14 Edited to

... Read moreในช่วงเวลาที่คำพูดไม่สามารถช่วยให้เรารู้สึกดีขึ้นหรือเข้าใจกันได้ "ความเงียบ" กลายเป็นเครื่องมือสำคัญในการปกป้องใจตัวเอง นอกจากจะช่วยให้ความรู้สึกที่ซับซ้อนได้คลี่คลายแล้ว การไม่โต้เถียงหรือไม่ตอบโต้ในบางสถานการณ์กลับทำให้เราไม่บาดเจ็บกับความขัดแย้งภายนอกมากขึ้น การเลือกที่จะ "จบที่ตัวเรา" คือการตัดสินใจอย่างมีสติ ที่จะโอบกอดความรู้สึกของตนเองอย่างเต็มที่ แม้ว่าจะไม่มีใครเข้าใจสิ่งที่เรารู้สึกก็ตาม การอยู่กับความเงียบใจไม่ใช่เรื่องที่ง่าย แต่เป็นหนทางแห่งการเยียวยาที่ช่วยให้เราสามารถกลับมาตั้งตัวและเข้าใจหัวใจตัวเองได้ดียิ่งขึ้น การปล่อยวางความต้องการให้คนอื่นเข้าใจหรือมาพยายามเปลี่ยนแปลงความคิดของเรา ช่วยเปิดพื้นที่ให้เราเชื่อมต่อกับตัวเองและความรู้สึกจริงแท้ของเราอย่างแท้จริง นอกจากนี้ "ความเงียบ" ยังสื่อสารถึงความแข็งแกร่งภายในของเรา ที่ไม่จำเป็นต้องแสดงออกทุกอย่างผ่านคำพูดหรือการกระทำ การให้เวลาและพื้นที่ตัวเองได้อยู่กับความรู้สึกในความสงบ จะช่วยเปิดโอกาสให้เราคิดทบทวนและประเมินสิ่งต่างๆ อย่างรอบด้านมากขึ้น สุดท้ายแล้ว การยอมรับและอยู่กับ "ความรู้สึก" ของตัวเองอย่างเงียบสงบ เป็นการดูแลใจที่งดงาม และเป็นขั้นตอนสำคัญในการเติมเต็มความสุขในชีวิต ผู้ที่ผ่านช่วงเวลาเช่นนี้มักจะค้นพบความสงบและความเบาสบายใจในตัวเอง แม้ว่าจะไม่มีใครเข้าใจเรื่องราวทั้งหมดของเขาก็ตาม ดังนั้น "ความเงียบคือสิ่งสุดท้ายของความรู้สึก" ไม่ใช่เพียงแค่ความเงียบในหู แต่คือความสงบและความอ่อนโยนที่เรามีให้ตัวเอง เป็นบทเรียนสำคัญของการรักตัวเองและฮีลใจอย่างแท้จริง

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