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Viewing and comparing.. makes us question??

Sometimes the social world

It makes us feel "scarce."

A society where no one actually knows anyone.

Everyone was boasting "happiness."

Perfection. Perfection.

Race, tell the world, "What do I have?"

Watching and comparing

Makes us question..

"Why we're not as lucky as him."

"Why are we not good, not beautiful, not rich?"

There's no chance like everyone else.

Social is "Maya."

We have to live with it with "consciousness."

Use the brain to "think" what to believe.

What should be eaten for entertainment?

Just don't be confident in what you see.

Don't "in" until you see yourself as a knot.

Although our lives are not so deficient

The people we envy him "in the online world."

Some corners of his life can be "sad."

Many times more than us.. in the real world

Really! ☺️

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