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Not the age of judgment, but the "development of the child." ðŸĪ

Are you still two months old? ðŸĪ

Many people have asked us a lot lately that

"Phoebus, two months ago, still wrapped up?"

The answer is... still wrapped.

But it's not because you're used to it or you can't quit.

It's because before making a decision, we spent a lot of time studying the pediatrician's advice and the baby's safe sleep guidelines to reach a conclusion that convinced us that...

Age is not something used to determine when to stop swaddling.

The more important thing is your development.

At first we understood, as many people, that after two months, we had to stop wrapping, but when we actually read the data, each child did not develop equally.

Some people start flipping at 2 months.

Some 3 months.

Some are almost 5 months.

So looking at age alone is probably not the cheapest answer.

What we do every day is observe Phi Bus

Have you started trying to flip?

Start your own chin yet?

Flex harder?

Do you lift your hips often?

Without these signals, the swaddle is safe.

But when we start trying to flip, even once, we stop swaddling.

Not waiting to be successfully flipped.

Because we never know when the first time you can flip will happen.

Could be tonight...

Maybe it's when we're asleep.

And if the ball is overturned while the arm is still wrapped, it may be difficult for him to push or lift his face, something we do not want to risk.

Another thing that many people worry about, including us, is

"If you stop wrapping, will you flinch to sleep?"

Actually, flinching. Or Moro Reflex is typical of babies.

Most gradually decline at about 3-4 months of age and disappear as they grow up.

So if it's time to really stop wrapping, we won't go back to wrapping just because we're afraid of you flinching.

But it will help you adapt in other ways, such as switching to Sleep Sack and making the right sleep environment.

For Phoebus, now two months old, doctors say that he is developing well, his neck is strong with age, and there is no sign of turning over.

So we still wrap ourselves up for you when you sleep.

But we also know that this age changes very quickly.

Today hasn't flipped...

Doesn't mean tomorrow hasn't flipped yet.

Because of this, we choose to observe children every day rather than just age numbers.

Raising a child does not have a formula for success that works for everyone.

But having the right information and observing our children is what makes us feel confident in every decision.

And for us...

Whether you sleep long is important, but you sleep safely is always more important. ðŸĪ

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As a mom of boys I hate the idea that boys can’t do or like certain things because we as a society has said so. I let my boy like what they like, and try what they’re interested in. I’m not saying boys don’t need to be masculine at all, I just don’t think we need to not put so much pressure on boys
Mariana â€Ē sahm

Mariana â€Ē sahm

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The "Grown Woman" Trap
Why motherhood isn't a maturity shortcut. 🛑 We’ve all seen the "man-child" trope, but we need to have a real, uncomfortable talk about us. Especially the "Pre-25 Club." There is a theory in sociology that we stop developing emotionally at the age we undergo a major life-al
The Gentle Forge

The Gentle Forge

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A handwritten note titled 'Self-Judgment' outlines key traits like negative self-talk, perfectionism, shame, and comparison. It lists effects such as lower self-esteem and increased anxiety, clarifying self-judgment is not self-awareness. Healthy alternatives include self-compassion and a growth mindset.
ðŸŒŋ Self-Judgment: It’s Not What You Think 💭
ðŸŒŋ Self-Judgment: It’s Not What You Think 💭 We often confuse self-judgment with self-awareness or accountability but they are not the same. âœĻ Self-judgment sounds like: ðŸ”đ “You’re not good enough.” ðŸ”đ “Everyone else is doing better.” ðŸ”đ “You should’ve known better.” It shows up as perfectio
Jessica Irene

Jessica Irene

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An open Bible with highlighted notes and the overlay text "STEAL MY BIBLE NOTES How I sat down vs. ROMANS ch.2". A bee-themed pen rests on the pages, with a baseball and a small figurine in the background.
An open Bible with highlighted notes and pens, featuring the overlay text "How I got up Judgment Day: NO excuses!". The notes discuss God's blessings, judgment, and the need for grace and repentance.
Close-up of an open Bible page with handwritten notes and highlighting. Key phrases include "PEOPLE do not generally sin in innocent ignorance" and "MUST TOTALLY DEPEND ON GOD'S GRACE," discussing God's righteous decree and punishment.
ðŸ”Ĩ Judgment Day: No Excuses! ðŸ”Ĩ
Romans Chapter 2 dives deep into the themes of judgment, hypocrisy, and true righteousness. - 👀 God’s judgment is impartial — no favoritism! - 🧠 Hypocrisy won’t escape God’s notice — judging others while doing the same is futile. - ⚖ïļ True righteousness comes from obeying God’s law with a
FaithBuilder

FaithBuilder

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The Bible says, “For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, that
Snake Eater

Snake Eater

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Learning My Attachment Patterns Without Judgment
I took an anxious attachment quiz today and scored 33. Not to label myself — but to understand my patterns. Awareness is where change starts. And I’m choosing to meet this version of me with compassion, not shame. If this resonates, you’re not alone ðŸĪ
Becoming Through Books

Becoming Through Books

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A woman in a floral dress holds a child in front of a large fountain and city skyline, with text overlay "5 WAYS TO BE A BETTER MOM."
A woman in sunglasses holds a child in front of a fountain and city buildings, with text overlay "PRACTICE ACTIVE LISTENING."
A woman kneels with two children on a brick path by a river with a bridge and city buildings, with text overlay "SET ASIDE QUALITY TIME."
Mom life is hard but don’t forgetâ€Ķ
Being a better mom is a journey filled with love, patience, & continuous learning. Here are 5 ways to enhance your motherhood experience & foster a deeper connection with your kids ðŸŦķ🏞 1. Practice Active Listening. One of the most valuable gifts you can give your child is your undivid
Dania Homeschool Mom & UGC

Dania Homeschool Mom & UGC

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An adult Black woman in a white dress kneels, smiling warmly at a young Black girl also in white, symbolizing the article's theme of healing the inner child. The title 'Talking to Your Inner Child: A Guide to Healing the Little You' is overlaid.
Talking to Your Inner Child: A Guide to Healing U🍋
Talking to Your Inner Child: A Guide to Healing the Little You Posted at: The Hidden Porch Let me tell you somethin’ real. Inside every grown person walking this Earth is a little child still waitin’ to be held, seen, and heard. That little version of you? The one who got scared, shamed, overlo
The Hidden Porch ÂĐ

The Hidden Porch ÂĐ

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Divine judgment and the path of truth
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N3WCR38SHUNZ

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A baby mobile hangs over a sleeping baby in a crib. Overlay text asks, 'Does SLEEP TRAINING make you a BAD MOM?' The image introduces a discussion on parenting choices.
A white baby crib with a mobile is shown against a patterned wall with framed art. Overlay text reads, 'Yes! You're a bad mom if you sleep train. But...'
A baby's arm and head are visible in a crib under a mobile. Overlay text states, 'You're also a bad mom if you co-sleep! Cause well, we're moms. We're going to be judged no matter what.'
Does sleep training make you a bad mom?
Sleep training vs co-sleeping has parents divided. A lot of parents will argue that one is safer than the other, and a lot of parents will get judged for doing one and not the other. Before we get into it, what’s the difference? Sleep training is basically letting the baby “cry it out”
Dania Homeschool Mom & UGC

Dania Homeschool Mom & UGC

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âœĻ10 Habits Of A Confident Woman
Confidence isn’t about being the loudest in the room—it’s about knowing who you are and standing in that truth.A confident woman moves with purpose,sets boundaries without guilt,and attracts what aligns with her energy.💗 ðŸŒļYou Speak with Authority and Grace You articulate your thoughts with cl
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Lsland

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An image featuring text overlay on an airport scene with airplanes, stating, 'Having emotionally immature parents means you're treated like an adult when your a child, and like a child when you're an adult.' This relates to the article's discussion of being an 'adult' as a child.
Pros and Cons of Being the “Adult” as a Child
👍Pros: â€Ē Resilience: Developed a strong ability to handle stress and adapt to challenges early on. â€Ē Independence: Became highly self-reliant and resourceful. â€Ē Empathy: Heightened sensitivity to others’ needs due to early caregiving roles. â€Ē Leadership skills: Often learned how to make dec
ChicVibes|TruLEO

ChicVibes|TruLEO

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NCLEX Development Milestones
One concept every nursing student should know: Infant development follows predictable patterns. Gross motor development progresses from head control → sitting → standing → walking, while fine motor skills become more coordinated over time. Recognizing these patterns helps simplify many NCL
Danica Lee | NCLEX Educator

Danica Lee | NCLEX Educator

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Awareness Isn’t Judgment — It’s Growth #TrueMirror
Some reactions don’t begin in the moment. They come from patterns we’ve repeated over time — often without realizing it. This episode explores how stress, past experiences, emotional triggers, and communication habits can shape the way we respond to others. Not to shame people. Not to label peo
John "Dollawise Jones

John "Dollawise Jones

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The Role of Play and Toys in Child Development: In
### The Role of Play and Toys in Child Development: Insights from Psychologists and Therapists Psychologists and therapists universally acknowledge that play, particularly with toys, is a fundamental aspect of a child's development. Whether in therapy sessions or everyday life, toys are seen
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Boss-family

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Growing And Healing My Inner Child ðŸŒļ
ðŸŒļ You are enough, just as you are. Because the world will always try to make you believe you need to be “more.” ðŸŒļ Your feelings are valid—every single one. Because you deserve to feel without shame or judgment. ðŸŒļ Mistakes don’t make you a failure. They make you human. Because failure is a
QuelleChaosðŸ§˜ðŸ―â€â™€ïļðŸ”Ūâ˜Ūïļ

QuelleChaosðŸ§˜ðŸ―â€â™€ïļðŸ”Ūâ˜Ūïļ

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FEAR OF JUDGMENT CAN RUIN YOUR LIFE.
Today is the day you let other people's thoughts about you stop controlling your life!! #chooseyourlife #changeyourlife #changeyourmindset #peoplepleasing
callee johnson

callee johnson

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A young child in a red jacket and grey hat smiles through a screen door. Text overlay reads "4 domains of child development inspo" with a lightbulb icon, and "lemon8 @victoria.genelin" at the bottom.
The image displays two sections. The top section features "Cognitive" in a yellow arrow, explaining it as a child's ability to mentally process information. The bottom section shows "Language" in a yellow arrow, describing it as the ability to comprehend and use language to communicate.
The image displays two sections. The top section features "Physical" in a yellow arrow, explaining it as biological and physical development including motor skills. The bottom section shows "Socio-emotional" in a yellow arrow, describing it as a child's experience, expression, and management of emotions and relationships.
4 Domains of child/toddler development!
These 4 domains of child toddler development areas we have always struggled with and a family. Once we finally got this down it helped our son out SO, much! 1. Cognitive learning and processing of information â€Ē imagination â€Ē critical thinking â€Ē problem-solving â€Ē reasoning â€Ē memory 2. L
Victoriagenelin

Victoriagenelin

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The Silent Judgment
The assassin known only as the Night's Edge crouched on the rain-slicked rooftop of Riften, the full moon hanging low over the huddled, shadowed homes. Below, the city's dim torchlight offered no warmth, only contrast, allowing him to melt into the gloom. This was his sanctuary and his hunt
Adventurers Journeys

Adventurers Journeys

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The image features a person's legs and hands, with small containers of blue and green beads on one leg and a hand holding an embroidery hoop with beaded thread. Overlaid text reads: "Unpopular Opinion: Parents Who don't check their Kids Phones are neglectful," reflecting the article's theme.
Unpopular Opinion
#lemon8contest #AskLemon8 Parents who fail to monitor their child’s phone usage and content are neglecting a crucial part of modern parenting. The internet is full of inappropriate content, harmful influences, and predators, and giving a child unfiltered access is like dropping them off in th
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LilyFaith

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Stop Fearing Judgment & Start Living for YOU
There’s something so freeing about living life on your own terms — in your own skin, your own style, and your own way. Let’s be real: Trying to please everyone or fit into someone else’s version of who you “should” be is exhausting. ðŸ™…ðŸ―â€â™€ïļ The moment you decide to embrace your full, authentic, un
Krissy on the HomesteadðŸŒą

Krissy on the HomesteadðŸŒą

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Child speech development 101 + it connects to LTC!
With LTC, goals are modified to meet someone's age and prior abilities 🙂 Articulation and sound production doesn't change as we age, so we target very similar goals in therapy. For example, after a stroke, if an adult has a motor speech disorder (like dysarthria), we also work on articulati
Erin Kenny, SLP, CDP | LTC SLP

Erin Kenny, SLP, CDP | LTC SLP

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NCLEX Psych: Clinical Judgment Focus
Psychosocial Integrity is about structure, limits, and safety — especially during acute mental health episodes. This question tests how well you reduce stimulation and maintain control when behavior escalates. Choose A, B, C, or D. Answer revealed tomorrow at 7:30 pm 🌟 #NCLEXPrep #Ps
Danica Lee | NCLEX Educator

Danica Lee | NCLEX Educator

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A collage of six overstimulating TV shows and movies for children, including Cocomelon, Heybear Sensory, Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, Gracie's Corner, Little Baby Bum, and Peppa Pig, as examples of content that can affect behavior.
A grid showcasing low-stimulating TV shows and movies available on Amazon Prime, such as Tumble Leaf, If You Give a Mouse a Cookie, The Snowy Day, Sesame Street, Barney, and Franklin, recommended for calmer viewing.
A grid of low-stimulating TV shows and movies available on Netflix, including Paddington, Llama Llama, Puffin Rock, Trash Truck, Shaun the Sheep, Angela's Christmas, and Robin Robin.
Overstimulating shows
I’ve known about this research for a long time, so none of this is new to me — but I still think more parents need to hear it. Overstimulating shows and fast-paced movies are truly affecting our kids’ behavior. Studies show that rapid scene changes, flashing lights, and constant noise can impact em
Jasyra RN

Jasyra RN

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A list on a light gray background highlights five negative traits: Ego, Envy, Anger, Ignorance, and Fear, explaining how each hinders personal growth, with key phrases underlined in yellow. The text concludes with "Get rid of them all." Logos for Lemon8 and Essential Mastery are at the bottom.
Let Go of Ego, Envy, Anger, Ignorance, and Fear🔑â„đïļâއïļ
Ego prevents you from learning from others. Envy distracts you from focusing on your own growth. Anger clouds your judgment and prevents clarity. Ignorance leads to poor decision-making. Fear stops you from seizing valuable opportunities. Letting go of these barriers is essential for personal and p
RoadToRiches

RoadToRiches

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A young woman sits on a couch, holding a baby in a plaid outfit, while looking at her phone. Text overlay reads "Hot Take: Moms don't need your opinions SWIPE."
Hot Take: My child, my rules
Hot Take: Stop telling moms how to parent The judgment moms get is unreal!! Everyone suddenly thinks they know what’s best for my kid? It’s not helpful, it’s insulting. I don’t need strangers, in laws, or random people online dictating how I should raise my child. It’s MY kid, not a community proj
abby | toddler mamaðŸ§ļ

abby | toddler mamaðŸ§ļ

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POV you’re healing but still feel ‘stuck’
We don’t talk enough about how healing isn’t just about understanding what happened. It’s not just about naming the trauma or piecing together the timeline. You can know all the facts, repeat the patterns back with perfect clarity, even explain your triggers better than a therapist — and still feel
hi, i’m Carlos.

hi, i’m Carlos.

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The Alchemy of Error: Transmuting Poison into Medicine
​"I come to you as one who has grown from the snake bite of stupidity" is an admission of earned authority. It moves beyond the theoretical "don't do that" of a teacher and into the visceral "I survived that" of a veteran. This perspective treats mistakes not as permanen
MM&N CREATIVE 💎 SOLUTIONS

MM&N CREATIVE 💎 SOLUTIONS

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AI That Understands Intent, Not Just Words
Most conversations aren’t just about words — they’re about intent. TrueMirror AI analyzes communication patterns, clarity, tone, and underlying meaning to help professionals communicate with more awareness and alignment. This episode explores: â€Ē Intent Awareness â€Ē Clarity Scoring â€Ē Leadership C
John "Dollawise Jones

John "Dollawise Jones

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pencil grip development checklist by age
Worried your child's crayon grip looks "wrong"? Take a breath. A mature pencil grip develops in stages, and a fist grip at 2 or 3 is exactly where most little hands start. I keep this calm checklist so I can see the normal progression instead of pushing a grip before the hand is ready.
Mind The Parent

Mind The Parent

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A person in a plank position on a dark floor, with text overlaying the image. The text lists negative traits that 'kill' positive outcomes, such as 'Laziness kills ambition' and 'Doubt kills confidence', followed by 'Now read that right to left.' The Lemon8 logo and username are at the bottom.
The Hidden Impact of Negativity 🔑â„đïļâއïļ
Explore how negative emotions and habits can undermine different aspects of our lives. Flip the script to see the impact in reverse. Deep Dive: This post highlights how various negative emotions and traits can sabotage important aspects of personal development and well-being. When read left to r
RoadToRiches

RoadToRiches

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Why My Autistic Child Needs to Chew
ðŸ’Ą Sensory Deep Dive: Why My Autistic Child Needs to Chew If you see my child chewing on a sleeve or their silicone necklace, please know it's not a 'bad habit'—it’s a powerful tool for self-regulation and sensory input. This is our reality navigating oral fixation on the autism spect
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_momma_wolf_

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A young mom stands on a dirt path with mountains at sunset, viewed from behind. The image features the title 'HOW TO HANDLE THE YOUNG MOM JUDGEMENT' and the Lemon8 logo, setting the theme for advice on overcoming judgment.
A young mom stands on a dirt path with a stroller, mountains in the background. The text overlay reads 'Focus on your strengths as a young mom,' emphasizing self-worth and positive attributes. Lemon8 logo included.
A young mom with a stroller and dog on a dirt path, mountains in the distance. The image lists strengths like Resilience, Energy, Open Minded, Love & Devotion, and Flexible, encouraging young mothers to recognize their positive qualities. Lemon8 logo is visible.
handling the judgmentâ€Ķ
hello â—ĄĖˆ Handling judgment as a young mom can be challenging. It often feels like older generations are always judging you — especially if you’re not married. Remember that judgment is often a reflection of the other person's beliefs and values, not your worth as a parent! You should truly
mom | sierra â—ĄĖˆ

mom | sierra â—ĄĖˆ

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