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What's too good? Give. Eh!!!Hold on.

In a world where everything happens too fast, sometimes the most dangerous thing is not what looks scary, but what looks too good.

Most people are often wary of people who look untrustworthy, but instead open up to people who look perfect easily.

When someone comes to life with everything that meets our needs, whether it's your face, your position, your understanding, or your favorite words, the first thing to do may not be to be happy, but to ask yourself:

"Why is everything so perfect?"

Not because everyone who is good will be a bad person, but because real life is almost nothing that perfect.

Many times, people who hope for our benefits start by studying what we lack, whether we are lonely, whether we want to understand, whether we want to be rich, whether we want to be in love, and then gradually fill them in until we feel that they are the ones who have been looking for their whole lives.

The problem is that when feelings precede consciousness, we often ignore alarms.

Humans tend to believe that good-looking people are good, believe that successful people must be trustworthy, or believe that the person who likes us is the one who understands us.

But in fact, credibility and image are not the same thing.

Whether it's love fraud, investment fraud, or even relationships that cost us financial freedom, it all starts with trust that happens too soon.

So if one day someone, or some opportunity, looks almost without disadvantages,

Don't rush to believe it. Don't rush to make a decision. Don't rush to leave your heart or money in the account.

Always have an "eh button."

Because sometimes, a few minutes of thought can help us see what emotions are hiding.

Paranoia is not a good thing.

But consciousness, before believing everything you see, is the best self-defense shield.

Uh, hold on. Doesn't mean I don't believe anyone.

But I mean, always give yourself time to the truth.

# Wake up knowing # Trending # Lemon8# Consciousness # Lemon 8 Howtoo

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