I’m not ‘high maintenance.’

I’m not “high maintenance.” I’m “appropriately demanding of respect.” And in the car world, that’s a distinction worth making.

Being a car girl comes with its own set of challenges. People assume you don’t know your stuff or that you’re just here for the aesthetics. Spoiler alert: I’m here because I love it, and I know my way around a wrench and a gas pedal. Demanding respect isn’t about being difficult—it’s about setting the standard that I deserve.

Whether I’m rolling into a car meet or cruising solo, I carry myself with confidence. Because respect starts with how you see yourself. If you’re showing up, putting in the work, and staying true to your passion, you’ve already earned your place. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

So here’s your reminder: It’s okay to set boundaries. It’s okay to take up space in a scene that doesn’t always make it easy. And it’s definitely okay to demand respect—not just for what you do, but for who you are.

#CarGirlsUnite #RespectTheBuild #SheDrives #GirlsWhoWrench #ConfidenceOnWheels #Lemon8Vibes

Molalla
2024/12/8 Edited to

... Read moreIn today's automotive community, women face numerous stereotypes, often labeled as 'high maintenance' for simply demanding the respect they deserve. However, recognizing and asserting your place in this male-dominated field can empower both you and others around you. The community is evolving, and with it, the narrative surrounding female car enthusiasts. Key topics such as the importance of connection—whether through friendships forged at car meets or forging a bond with your vehicle—highlight that passion knows no gender. Women who dismantle engines, modify cars, and showcase their skills contribute to changing perceptions. By embracing roles in the automotive world, women create a support network that champions diversity and encourages more women to take up space. Customization and modification are realms where respect and skill intersect, empowering individuals not only to stand out but also to express their personalities through their vehicles. Workshops and mentorship programs are vital for women looking to enhance their knowledge and skills, helping to bridge the gap and dispel myths about capability. Furthermore, setting boundaries in a predominantly male space isn't just about individuality; it's about advocating for fair treatment and acknowledgment. By demanding respect, female drivers contribute to a more inclusive culture where all car enthusiasts can thrive. Such movements aim to dismantle preconceptions while fostering community initiatives to uplift aspiring mechanics and drivers. As more women confidently occupy this space, the landscape changes for future generations of car enthusiasts, paving the way for a more diverse and equitable automotive world.

12 comments

MustangAnge's images
MustangAnge

Absolutely 💯 🔥🔥🔥

See more(1)

Related posts

I’m not high maintenance
but my yoghurt bowls definitely are✨ 🥣cherry yoghurt 🥣passionfruit 🥣strawberries 🥣pistachios 🥣pistachio nut butter 🥣honey almond crunch granola @Lemon8 Food #lemon8partner #easyrecipes #yogurt #highproteinrecipe #summerrecipes
Emily Browning

Emily Browning

54 likes

high maintenance to stay low maintenance ✨
all my tips n tricks to stay glowing and fresh all year round that don’t break the bank or your schedule #hotgirlglow #beautyfinds #Lemon8 #high maintenance #lemon8challenge
abigail lawson .𖥔 ݁ ˖🦢˚. ᵎᵎ

abigail lawson .𖥔 ݁ ˖🦢˚. ᵎᵎ

739 likes

High Maintenance Things To Stay Low Maintenance ☁️
Hey ya’ll! 💕 I wanted to share some of the ‘high maintenance’ habits I rely on to keep things low maintenance. I’m all about prioritizing self-care and refining my lifestyle by discovering smart, efficient ways to upgrade my daily routine—without breaking the bank! Let me know if you would like
MOCHA

MOCHA

1130 likes

The unique reason I appear high maintenance
#skinhealthtips #skinhealth #beautyhealth #healthyagingtips #high maintenance
markelybeauty

markelybeauty

1158 likes

High maintenance to be low maintenance routine!!🎀✨
#high maintenance #cleangirly #maintenance #maintenanceroutine #cleangirlroutine
Susan

Susan

2022 likes

Does this even make me low maintenance?
These are some of the skincare and wellness things I do regularly to lighten my daily routine! 1. Eyebrow dye: I have red hair, which means red eyebrows, which means very faint eyebrows! I love the color of my hair, but I wished for a long time that I had more definition in my eyebrows. For the
outdoorsieabbie

outdoorsieabbie

2478 likes

How To Keep Your High Maintenance Up🔝
Some people are dangerously low-maintenance. We all know that feeling when you're running late, desperately trying to apply mascara without poking your eye out, only to end up with clumpy spider legs. Well, it's time to bid adieu to that struggle and embrace the high maintenance lifestyle..
Angelina

Angelina

1679 likes

High Maintenance To Be Low Maintenance
So today I wanted to share with you guys some of the “high maintenance” things I do to make my life easier. They’re just some things I put a lil extra effort into so that I don’t have to worry about them as much on a daily basis. I love love LOVE self care so even though I call it maintenance, I’m
alysía

alysía

2167 likes

I’m not high maintenance
Just well kept and hard to foo #milf #unapologeticallyme #summerbod
nm_mountaingirl

nm_mountaingirl

14 likes

high maintenance to be low maintenance 🫶🏼
what’s on your maintenance routine list? #routine #maintenance #maintenanceroutine #highmaintenance #selfcare
kels

kels

377 likes

broke girls hack to look like high-maintenance
#blackgirltok #blackgirlmakeup #blackgirlhair #beautyhacks #glowuptips
Silky Hair Tips

Silky Hair Tips

374 likes

high maintenance routine to stay “low maintenance✨
Here is the link to EVERYTHING all of these products are my HOLY GRAIL 🔥 https://liketk.it/5wR6z ⭐️Overall rating: /10:10
Haley Larkin 🍯

Haley Larkin 🍯

3046 likes

High maintenance to be low maintenance 💁🏼‍♀️
My high maintenance steps to be low maintenance day to day! Follow along for detailed tutorials 😎 #selfcare #highmaintenance #glowup #lowmaintenancebeauty
Courtney

Courtney

6272 likes

5 high maintenance beauty to stay low maintenance
I’m someone that loves to look great and feel great but without doing a lot! Being high maintenance takes a lot of effort but doing these five beauty essentials help me stay low maintenance majority of the time!💗 My five high maintenance essentials: - hair dye - press on nails - chemical peel
Prettythingswithjess

Prettythingswithjess

1048 likes

💖 High-Maintenance Habits THAT Girl 2025
Daily Habits 💦 Start with the basics—hydration is everything. Drinking 2-3L of water daily (based on your body weight) can seriously change how your skin and energy feel. SPF and skincare aren’t just trends—they’re essentials. Journaling is great for clearing your head, and those 5-10k steps? They
emilie.studygram

emilie.studygram

1856 likes

HIGH MAINTENANCE AT HOME GUIDE
As promised, I'm back with my favorite high maintenance at home items that you can use in the comfort of your own home 🏠 ✨ Being high maintenance can cost hundreds of thousands of dollars a month AND with this economy? It's almost impossible to keep up 😩 Here are my favorite things I&
Lushie Club 💖

Lushie Club 💖

886 likes

High maintenance to be low maintenance routine!!✨
High maintenance tips/routine that transformed me a lot 🥰 #highmaintenance #maintenanceroutine #cleangirlroutine #routineideas #routine
Kathy

Kathy

467 likes

How to become an High Maintenance Women
Becoming “high maintenance” as a woman often means elevating your self-care, appearance, and lifestyle while setting high standards for how you treat yourself and how others treat you. Here’s a guide: 1. Prioritize Self-Care 2. Elevate Your Style 3. Cultivate Confidence 4. Maintain High Stand
Skittlez

Skittlez

707 likes

How to be high maintenance🌸
P.s. it’s okay to disagree 🫶🏼 #selfgrowth #girlyaesthetic
Alexia Thompson

Alexia Thompson

10.2K likes

High Maintenance Lifestyle 💘
1. Invest in Yourself: The Ultimate Glow-Up 💅 🧴🫧**Personal Care Treatments**: Treat yourself to manicures, massages, facials, and quality skincare products. You deserve it! 🥭 **Your Signature Scent**: Find a perfume that makes you feel like a million bucks. Your scent is your signature!
DreamDiariez

DreamDiariez

274 likes

High maintenance Tips I do to Stay low Maintenance
Currently working on the laser hair removal! #highmaintenance #cleangirl #maintenance #maintenanceroutine #cleangirlroutine
Ela Zbireanu

Ela Zbireanu

267 likes

Beauty maintenance routine 🧖🏻‍♀️🤍🪞🌸🫧
I share a lot about my skincare, hair care and all of my other various beauty routines, but I think it’s about time to share what it all looks like together! 🧖🏻‍♀️🌸🫧 There are a lot of treatments that I personally enjoy doing myself at home to not only understand what goes into the process, but
Alexandra

Alexandra

946 likes

High Maintenance Girl Things
Here are some of my FAVORITE products that I use to keep myself “maintained” throughout the weeks. Almost all of these I do about once a week. :) Doing all of this at home yourself helps you save SO much money. Hair Extensions: these hair extensions are from AMAZON. I am obsessed with them. I l
Kaela Tripp

Kaela Tripp

873 likes

High-maintenance beauty secrets that actually work
Taking care of yourself doesn’t have to be complicated, but consistency makes the biggest difference. Little habits like double cleansing, scalp care, body exfoliation, and lymphatic massage can completely change how your skin, hair, and body look over time. Being “high maintenance” is really just
vanessa (Beauty Fantasys)

vanessa (Beauty Fantasys)

19 likes

High maintenance Tips I do To stay Low maintenance
Hello darling ❤️ I am working on the laser hair removal at the moment. I tint my eyebrows at home with “just for men beard and mustache tint” and I do them every 10 days and only takes 5 min For my lashes I use “ucoolme” lash clusters! I’m in love with them, they last me about 4 days. A
Ela Zbireanu

Ela Zbireanu

42 likes

The only cause I look high maintenance is because
#manhealthyself #healthyguthabits #naturaloriginals #heathyhabits #forguthealth
everlyglow

everlyglow

10 likes

High maintenance to be low maintenance routine!! 🥰
#high maintenance #cleangirly #maintenance #maintenanceroutine #cleangirlroutine
Ela Zbireanu

Ela Zbireanu

28 likes

high maintenance wellness habits
Do you have any high maintenance wellness habits i should try?!it's honestly LESS effort to do my wellness habits with these additions, because they make it SO much better that I'm EXCITED + more motivated to do them! Does that make sense?! Like going that extra mile makes it easier- and I
Valerie

Valerie

542 likes

I’m not high maintenance…you’re low effort.
#Funny #comedyvideo #dreads #dreadlocks #realtalk
Dreaded Hippie Girl

Dreaded Hippie Girl

3 likes

Self-maintenance is self-respect 💖
It’s not vanity—it’s self-respect. From skincare to soul care, self-maintenance is how I show up for me. Because when you look good, feel good, and stay aligned, you attract better. 💅✨ Follow for routines, glow-up habits, and high-vibe self-care inspo. #SelfCareRoutine #MaintenanceMonday #G
NeeNee💖

NeeNee💖

1401 likes

Maintenance is how you repair.
Preventative measures. #highqualityseamoss #reduceinflammation #herbalremedies #vegan #organicfoods Atlanta
Highqualityseamoss

Highqualityseamoss

521 likes

My High Maintenance Self Care 💗
#selfcare #selfcareroutine #selflove #highmaintenance #slay #healthylifestyle2024 #Essential
Ally Vegera

Ally Vegera

1022 likes

5 High Maintenance Habits | beauty edition
I love looking put-together, but I’m also lazy 😅 These beauty habits save me time every week: ✨ Brow tint ✨ Lash clusters ✨ Hair straightening ✨ BHA pads ✨ Nail care Work smarter, not harder. 😍 #lemon8partner #beautyroutine #lowmaintenancebeauty #selfcaretips #glowup
nicaabarientos

nicaabarientos

245 likes

High maintenance to be low maintenance tips 🍋💗
Some of my favorite routine bits though out the week 💗 What are some of your favs? #high maintenance #maintenanceroutine #cleangirlroutine #selfcare #beautytips
Brianna Adams

Brianna Adams

268 likes

I’m not high maintenance.
Went camping and there was no way o was hiking to the bathrooms across the campground in the middle of the night- so yes I peed in a 5 gallon bucket. And I’d do it again! Haha #wildernessgirl #wildernesslife #goingoutsideinnature #outdoorswoman #camping
Camryn Jenette

Camryn Jenette

0 likes

7 Low-Maintenance Tips for a High-Maintenance Look
Effortless beauty doesn’t mean zero effort—it’s all about the right choices. Here’s how to look put together without spending hours: 💇🏾‍♀️Hair Game Strong: Invest in a quality sew-in or low-maintenance style that stays polished. 🧖🏾‍♀️Skin First: Prioritize skincare or use skincare-based makeu
Schounie_

Schounie_

161 likes

High maintenance girl habits
A few of my high maintenance girl morning habits
Alexis Kaya

Alexis Kaya

6 likes

High-Maintenance Habits To Be Low-Maintenance 🧴
I love finding new habits that save time in the long run and make me feel confident! 🖤 A game changer: At-home lash extensions! • I use a bond & seal and lash clusters to get pretty and full lashes. These last me a whole week, so no need for mascara or fake lashes every day! 🫧 Skincare:
Melanie <3

Melanie <3

70 likes

high maintenance things i do to be low maintenance 🫶🏻
#glowuptips #glowupchallenge #overnightglowup #prettygirls #hotgirltips #prettygirltiktok #skintok #skincare #skincareroutines #antiageingskincare #antiageing
miiaaa 🫶🏻

miiaaa 🫶🏻

132 likes

High maintenance ✨
#justagirl #fyp #geminiai #prompts #cuteoutfitideas
シンシア  ガルシア

シンシア ガルシア

33 likes

Body care products ✨maintenance✨
🖤 I don’t spend much money on myself because life is a lot, but I have a few things I use to keep me feeling expensive without constant need for spending. 🩶 Overall body care is just as important as facial care! Sunscreen, moisturizer, internal health. I have the bad habit of focusing on my face
🩶🪲

🩶🪲

437 likes

My husband thought I was low maintenance! 🤣
I might be low maintenance with my beauty routine, but I’m high maintenance when it comes to my tools!! #diy #diyproject #tools #homeproject #dewalt
Astin Hancock

Astin Hancock

169 likes

High maintenance materials to avoid✨
here are some high-maintenance materials to avoid using in your home! most of these require frequent cleaning to keep them looking nice!🤍 #homefinds #homedecor #interiordesign #roomtour #home @Lemon8 Home
e

e

450 likes

High Maintenance to be Low Maintenance
These are some high maintenance things I do to be low maintenance everyday! ✨ Daily Supplements: I take Black Edlerberry, Daily Multivitamin, & PreNatals every day! A lot of pregnant women think their pregnancy is the reason their hair, skin and nails are benefiting but it’s actually from ta
ashley 🐆💗🪩✨

ashley 🐆💗🪩✨

34 likes

high maintenance things I do to stay low maintenance
#selfcare
elizabeth grace

elizabeth grace

25 likes

“I’m low maintenance”
Meanwhile my brain: reads labels, interrogates ingredients, checks sourcing, asks about water, cookware, candles, and car seats 😅 Not high maintenance—just highly aware. Once you know better, you choose better. And honestly? There’s no going back. If this is you too, welcome to the club 🤍
Jasyra RN

Jasyra RN

2 likes

High Maintenance✨🖤
#HelloLemon8 #fypシ #fyplemon8
PuffPuff Faye🪐

PuffPuff Faye🪐

5 likes

I’m not prissy or high maintenance…… 🤦🏽‍♀️
꧁꧂ Don’t let my pictures fool you…… I am the furthest thing from “prissy” or high maintenance. I am not afraid to get dirty. I thrive in the dirt actually. I’m a country girl. I was raised around a bunch of boys, with a military dad & a hard-working, “put your big girl panties”
MrsSimonowicz

MrsSimonowicz

5 likes

Being “Low Maintenance” Isn’t Always a Good Thing
Hot take: “low maintenance” sounds cute, but it can actually be a trap. 🙃 There’s a difference between being chill and just ignoring your own needs. It becomes a problem when you: Keep quiet instead of speaking up Settle for half-hearted effort Hide what you really want Mistake “peace”
💙Lucyy

💙Lucyy

500 likes

See more