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My next relationship…

I want it all! I want Long talks on the phone! want Laughs! I want warm Hugs! I want Passionate kisses! Comforting hugs! I want Just because moments! I want Random Thinking of you! Let's go here! Baby you hungry?messages!

I want sentimental ! I want hand holding, I want staring in your eyes, letting our souls speak! I want flowers! I want romantic get aways! I want great sex! I want to smile at the thought of her!

Is that too much to ask for?

What happened to courting? love? romance?

#wlw🌈 #Lemon8 #scared to love someone new #waitingforlove

2025/10/5 Edited to

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