Don’t be so hard on yourself 🫶🤩 you’re doing an amazing job momma 👏🏽👏🏽

2025/9/19 Edited to

Related posts

A couple is shown holding hands, with the text overlay "HARD PILLS TO SWALLOW IN A RELATIONSHIP" prominently displayed. The image features the Lemon8 logo and the username @staci_york.
This image presents the first five "hard pills to swallow" in a relationship as text overlay, including points about unresolved fights, dinner choices, and personal needs. The Lemon8 logo and username @staci_york are visible.
The image displays the remaining five "hard pills to swallow" in a relationship as text overlay, covering topics like relationship end dates, accepting partners, and the nature of love. The Lemon8 logo and username @staci_york are included.
Hard Pills To Swallow in a Relationship
I love my relationship, and nothing drives me crazier than hearing people go on and on about how hard relationships are. I don’t believe that relationships are hard… I do believe that life can be hard and that sometimes life can make being in a relationship feel hard. I also believe that in order t
staci york 💛🍋

staci york 💛🍋

3777 likes

A blurred car interior with a steering wheel and dashboard, featuring text "driving 101 tips for new learners - parallel parking" as the title slide for a guide.
A diagram illustrating Step 1 of parallel parking, showing a red car aligning its bumper 2 feet from a blue car, with a yellow car parked behind the blue car.
A diagram for Step 2 of parallel parking, depicting a red car backing up at a 45-degree angle towards a yellow car, with instructions to turn the wheel until the license plate is visible.
WHY IS THIS SO HARD!
Soparallel parking is someone a hard thing to do since you were trying not to hit two cars, but it is necessary when you’re driving or live in the city, but I have done it a couple times and this is what I used to help me out and just to pay attention where your wheels are and where other cars are
Carhem🌺🐚

Carhem🌺🐚

7528 likes

A spiral notebook displays handwritten rules for a '75 day HARD challenge,' including dietary restrictions, daily workouts, reading, water intake, and lifestyle habits, with a start date of January 6, 2025.
A wall covered with 75 numbered sticky notes, arranged in rows with alternating colors, serves as a visual tracker for the '75 day HARD challenge,' with each note representing a day.
Three books are shown: 'Atomic Habits' by James Clear, a 'Christian Standard Bible,' and 'The Iliad & The Odyssey' by Homer, which are the chosen reading materials for the challenge.
75 day hard challenge
Excuse my sloppy handwriting I was jotting things down pretty quickly but anyways…. Hi my name is B and I’m starting the 75 hard challenge on Monday January 6,2025. These are kinda the “rules” aka things I’m going to be doing so anyone is welcome to use them too… I saw lots of people who did end up
“pages from a praying girl”

“pages from a praying girl”

1270 likes

A laptop displaying a calendar, a drink, headphones, and a pink notepad on a wooden table, with the text '75 hard Student Edition' overlaid, setting the theme for student challenges.
An outdoor scene featuring a grand building with columns, green grass, and a bright sun, with a pink text box stating 'START WORKING BY 9 AM.'
An open notebook with a handwritten 'To do' list and a pen, featuring a pink text box that reads 'MAKE A TO DO LIST EVERY DAY AND ACTUALLY USE IT'.
Making 75 hard for students
So I decided I want to set better intentions and practices for grad school and unfortunately I’m really bad about doing things consistently so I’m hoping by starting this challenge my competitiveness will pull me through. Starting early has been something I do, but i struggle sometimes with con
Sarah :)

Sarah :)

3912 likes

A person in a black cap and olive green t-shirt with "FULL OF JOY! PSALM 16:11" printed on it, drinking from a cup against a gray wall. The text overlay reads "uncomfortable lessons i had to learn."
Two people are embracing in a hug, with others seated in the background. The text overlay states, "I can't do it all alone" and "hyper-independence will get me nowhere except burnt out. we're built for community and those bonds are SO important."
An open journal with handwritten entries and a calendar grid. The text overlay reads, "change your thoughts, change your life" and "my perspective is what determines how I experience every moment. when I change how I think about things, the things I think about change."
Things I learned the hard way so you don’t have to
my 20s have been all about finding my way - figuring out who i am and what’s important to me, how to operate as an adult, deciding on my values and beliefs, building habits, etc. there’s so much more than i could fit into this one post, but these are some of the most uncomfortable lessons i’ve
carley ◡̈

carley ◡̈

424 likes

a self care checklist for really hard days ❤️‍🩹
some days are just really f*cking hard. i’m personally guilty of being super mean to myself when i’m struggling (which only makes everything 10x worse) if you’re a perfectionist and overachiever like me, then i have an analogy that i think will be really helpful for you ⤵️ your car has a spee
carley ◡̈

carley ◡̈

7509 likes

GOING HARD ON THIS FUPA
The abs on the top are coming in real niceee like (taking their time but they are otw 😆) But this hangtime needs some more work ! A big focus over the next few weeks for me is going to be my abs with a emphasis on the lower ab area so feel free to send me some workouts to add to the regimen!
Kalias Queen

Kalias Queen

1295 likes

75 Day Hard - Day 1 🍋
My version of the 75 hard challenge + the rules i’m following: 1. No eating out ❌ I don’t want a super restrictive diet, but I do want to save money and try to eat healthier! 2. 10k + steps a day 🚶‍♀️ 3. Another workout on top of the 10k steps (two days a week will be active recovery like
notyourblonde

notyourblonde

88 likes

Why are you working so hard? ✨
People will overlook the👇🏼 * Early mornings * Late nights * Obstacles * Self-doubt * Leaps of faith * Money invested They’ll only see the results and label you as “lucky.” Don’t expect them to understand #successfulwomanaesthetic #entrepreneur #mompreneur #onlinebusiness #womene
PrettyfulBiz

PrettyfulBiz

18 likes

A close-up of two people holding hands in a car, with the text "Hard Truths About Dating" overlaid, serving as the article's title image.
A smartphone displaying app icons, with text bubbles explaining that people aren't products to buy online and dating apps shouldn't be treated like shopping.
White Crocs and car keys by a pool, with text stating you'll never be completely "ready" for a relationship and that change is normal.
Unfiltered Dating:Hard truth about dating‼️
Dating can be tough—we all know that. But sometimes, we make it even harder without realizing it. One big way we do that is by having unrealistic expectations. A lot of us have this picture-perfect idea of dating, like it should be straight out of a movie. But real life doesn’t always match up t
Milaidy🫧🌺🍕

Milaidy🫧🌺🍕

432 likes

Hard truths of Nursing School
1. You get in, what you put out!! The more effort you put into learning, the more you are taking away from it. Use this in Clinicals, the more open and willing you are, the more likely you will get more hands on experience and will be taught more from the nurses. If I am ever asked what I can do, “
Lyss❤️🐮

Lyss❤️🐮

479 likes

It can be hard sometimes
Everyone struggles with their relationship with God but you will get there 💗 Always come back to God in the end!! Don’t forget what he has blessed you with and how beautiful he made you💕 #godloves #godisgood #godlovesyou #christian #christiangirl #christianlifestyle #love #ble
Sophie

Sophie

768 likes

Play smart, don't play hard 🕶
#movies #moviestowatch #WhatToWatch #TopMovies
uharax

uharax

21 likes

Don’t cry! Trying to be an influencer is hard
#fyp #foodie #food #dontcry
MsPrize

MsPrize

24 likes

This song gets hard. I don’t know what.
What’s it about but it hurts so hard. I love this song so much when I’m sad. It just makes me feel like oh no just makes me feel better.
Your fav latina

Your fav latina

16 likes

Hard Reset on Life!!
A guide I found to do a hard reset on life #reset #journalprompts #journaling #journal
Aleshia Green

Aleshia Green

3946 likes

it may be hard but it's so worth it 🫶🏽
it was always so hard to make myself a priority because everyone was more important than me. i didn’t want anyone to feel bad and would often overextend myself when really i didn’t want to nor needed to. i believed the lies about myself and therefore, hated the person staring back at me. it’
R Y E S I A

R Y E S I A

212 likes

Having faith can be hard.
To believe in something without first seriously reflecting on it or looking into it is not an act of faith, it is an act of foolishness. It is not, as some have held, a virtue to believe something without evidence or reason. The person who says, “You just have to have faith,” is really just proclai
She's Fruitful

She's Fruitful

229 likes

Why it’s hard for women over 40 to lose weight
You’re not broken. Your metabolism isn’t “too slow.” But if you’re still grinding through HIIT workouts, starving yourself, and wondering why the scale won’t budge… it’s time for a reality check. 🔥 Here’s the truth: HIIT + low calories = a cortisol nightmare. When your body is already jugg
Dr. Salako

Dr. Salako

524 likes

“My workouts aren’t hard enough”
Are they too easy or are you not pushing yourself hard enough? I think with social media and seeing so many exercises each day it's so easy to be stuck in a ADD mindset You don't need to be doing fancy supersets You don't need to be doing a bunch of burnouts or activation work to
CieraLord

CieraLord

18 likes

How to study hard without burning out ✨🥰
We’ve probably all been there so here is your daily reminder to take care of yourself when it’s ✨exam season ✨ again. The most effective protections against burnout is definitely mindfulness. Be that a short meditation, deep breathing or a few lines of journaling, just check in with yourself ❤️ At
Mindstudyio

Mindstudyio

528 likes

A person in a mirror lifts their shirt to reveal a black waist trainer, with text overlays "Waist Training" and "75 Hard Glow up version" and decorative hearts and cherries.
An infographic titled "MYTHS AND REALITIES OF WAIST TRAINERS" lists common misconceptions about waist trainers alongside their factual realities, featuring an illustration of a woman.
A close-up image of a black YIANNA latex underbust waist cincher with multiple hook-and-eye closures, labeled as "My choice for waist trainer" from an online store.
75 Hard Glow Up Version: Waist Training
Please do your own research before starting waist training!! As part of my version of 75 Hard, I am re-incorporating waist training into my DAILY routine. I’ve always liked a latex waist trainer but there are many more options out there. Why I waist train: 🩷Posture - I have a terrible
Nydizzle🌷✨

Nydizzle🌷✨

193 likes

Why weight loss is so hard for women!
Tired of the cycle? Comment “TRANSFORMATION” if you have a goal of losing at least 20-30 pounds, your tired of trying and failing and your ready to invest in some expert guidance to hold your hand through the process. For many of my clients, I’m often their last resort before considering wei
Dr. Salako

Dr. Salako

240 likes

Making friends is EFFING HARD‼️❌
I always tried and tried to make friends. With anyone, who would accept me. I wanted to fit in, be accepted, and respected. Yet it wasn’t enough. Yes I had some “good friends” growing up. But where are they now? Exactly. Then something shifted when I turned 18+ Girls saw me as competition-
Kateryna

Kateryna

234 likes

Don't be hard on yourself 🌸
#2024wishlist #Lemon8Diary #shareyourthoughts # Los Angeles
Gurpreet

Gurpreet

4 likes

Day 4 of 75 Hard 🫠✅
Day 4 of 75 Hard 🫠✅ Today I questioned myself why I decided to DO this challenge!? MAIN WHY: to begin making myself a priority. As a single mom and business owner, I often put my son and my clients needs above myself. I’ll become so consumed with work, I won’t eat and I’ll skip workout
Iamelleross

Iamelleross

22 likes

A young woman with long dark hair and glossy lips takes a selfie. She wears a white t-shirt with pink writing and a heart pendant. Text overlays read "Girls Talk" and "GIRL FRIENDSHIPS ARE HARD," reflecting the article's theme. Tattoos are visible on her arms.
Girl friendships are hard
Honestly, admitting you have a small circle to not that many close friends is hard. My friendships mean a lot to me and i used to feel as though i needed a lot of friends or to be well known. In reality, it matters most who those people feel about you and treat you. It’s better to be alone than in
bri

bri

95 likes

A woman in athletic wear stands in a home gym with a barbell, illustrating the article's title "Why I think 75 HARD is a bad idea."
A woman takes a mirror selfie in a gym, with text overlays explaining why the "all or nothing" mentality and lack of rest days in 75 Hard can burn out beginners.
A woman stands outdoors, with text overlays stating that extreme changes are physically and mentally taxing, and a fitness routine must be customized to the individual.
Don’t do 75 hard.
Don’t do 75 hard… if you’re just beginning your fitness journey. It’s meant to be a challenge not a sustainable life change. If you’ve never heard of this challenge..here are the rules: -follow any diet with no off plan meals or alcohol -complete two 45 minute workouts everyday (one outside)
fitness coach

fitness coach

95 likes

A woman in a black and pink floral dress stands by a large window overlooking a city at dusk, looking back at the camera.
A woman in a black and pink floral dress stands facing the camera, leaning on a high-top table by a window with a city view.
A woman in a black and pink floral dress poses with her hand on her head, leaning on a high-top table by a window with a city view.
75 HARD CHALLENGE
I will be starting the 75 HARD challenge on Monday, August 12! If anyone wants to join me I would LOVE THAT! The creator I want to follow along with is rhegan coursey on tiktok, she’s my fave! My rules for the challenge: 1. Exercise - two 45 minute workouts, one outdoors For my indoor workout,
Jana James

Jana James

36 likes

A person stands with their back to the camera, looking at a city skyline at night under a full moon. Text overlays include "How to heal and or move on from a hard breakup," "self healing," and "never give up."
A silhouette of a person stands on a beach at night, facing the ocean under a cloudy sky. Text provides advice on feeling emotions after a breakup, including crying and looking at old photos.
Two people are embracing, with a charging battery icon and the phrase "I'm here for you." Text advises finding someone to vent to, like family, friends, or pets, for support during a breakup.
How To HEAL and or Move on From a Hard Breakup.💔❤️‍🩹
#lemon8diarychallenge #heartbreak #healing #healingjourney #failure #thebestversionofme #thewizardliz #relationship #manifestation I LOVE YOU ALL DONT FORGET TO DO THESE THINGS IN THIS HARD TIME!! 🧘 1: WORK ON YOURSELF AND YOUR HOBBIES!! ❤️‍🩹2: FEEL ALLLL THE PAIN YOU NEED
Dezii!!💓🧸

Dezii!!💓🧸

39 likes

The cold, hard truth🍋
No this isn’t click bait. Sorry. Tbh I do end up blocking profiles that over do it. You may hate me after this, and that’s ok ! All in all, it’s still a cool app…I just have to block like 5 people a day lol. #lemon8issues #lemon8problems #hellolemon8 @Lemon8 Food #lemon8f
Lava Montana 🤎

Lava Montana 🤎

5686 likes

I’m doing 75 Hard for the second time…
And here are some of the pros and cons that I’ve found during my two experiences! First, these are the “rules” of the 75 Hard fitness/mental challenge (you’re supposed to do all of these for 75 days without missing a day! If you miss a day, you start over 🙃) 1. No alcohol (I don’t drink alre
Catie Strong

Catie Strong

68 likes

A collage illustrating a '75 hard Glow up Challenge' with images of a person exercising, beauty products, a woman doing a skincare routine, a notebook, and a healthy meal. Text overlays emphasize 'Make yourself a priority'.
75 hard - Glow up version
I heard this creator on tik tok mention the things that are “making you ugly”. Not working out. Not eating right. Not chasing your goals. It really hit me. We all have the power to be the best version of ourselves and most of us know what to do to get there and just don’t do it. How great would
Nydizzle🌷✨

Nydizzle🌷✨

2138 likes

See more