The moment that almost made me quit…
There comes a point in every dream where rejection shows up.
When the progress is slower than expected.
When people don’t see the vision yet. When the crab-people (I call them) want to keep you with them in the bucket.
But those moments are often the test — to see how serious you are about the dream you started.
Are you serious about making those candles?
Are you serious about opening that art studio?
Are you serious about helping underprivileged youth?
Are you serious about baking those cakes, singing those songs, dancing those dances?
GET UP & DO IT!!!! DO IT LIKE YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT!!! RESUSCITATE THAT DREAM TODAY, GIVE IT MOUTH TO MOUTH & WATCH IT BREATHE!!!
Rejection can feel like a heavy weight when you’re chasing a dream, whether it’s starting a business, creating art, or helping others. I remember a time when I almost gave up because progress seemed painfully slow and those around me didn’t understand my vision. The phrase “crab mentality” perfectly describes how some people, intentionally or not, try to pull you down into their comfort zone instead of supporting your growth. What I’ve learned is that these moments of doubt and discouragement are vital tests. They reveal how serious you really are about your goals. It’s easy to stay motivated when everything is going well, but true passion is proven during setbacks. When faced with rejection, remind yourself why you started and envision what achieving your dream will mean to you. For instance, if you aspire to open an art studio, use every "no" as motivation to sharpen your skills and build a stronger presence. If your dream is to bake and sell cakes, each hurdle is a chance to improve recipes and customer service. Reviving your dream is like giving it mouth-to-mouth resuscitation—it breathes new life when you refuse to quit. Surround yourself with positive influences who encourage rather than hold you back. Celebrate small victories to build momentum. In summary, rejection tests if you’re serious, but it’s also a powerful catalyst that can push you toward success. Embrace it, stay persistent, and watch your dreams live and grow.