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The first child.

Mother's darling.

I never thought that at 35, I would step into the greatest role of my life - "motherhood."

The day I gave birth, it was full of the most pain I've ever experienced, but at the same time it was also the happiest day, every breath, every physical force I used. It was a battle to meet the long-awaited "precious gift."

Raising at this age, I feel that... although the body is not as fresh as youth, the heart is more gentle and patient, and I have been through so many life experiences that today I understand that "true happiness" is not a great thing, but seeing your children close their eyes, hearing small laughter, and hugging you every day.

You may not know how much courage, patience and love it took for me to meet, but I want you to know that from the moment I heard your cry, I promised myself to take care, love and protect you for the rest of my life.

I believe that coming this time is the perfect time for us, because I'm ready to give everything to you without any more hesitation.

With love with the most heart

From a 35-year-old mother.

# New Mom # Difficult to have children # Life after having children # When I was a mother # Lemon 8 Howtoo

2025/8/21 Edited to

... Read moreการเป็นแม่คนแรกในวัย 35 ปีนั้นถือเป็นช่วงเวลาที่เปี่ยมไปด้วยความท้าทายและความหมายลึกซึ้ง สำหรับหลายๆ คน อายุที่มากขึ้นอาจมีข้อจำกัดทางกายภาพ แต่กลับเสริมสร้างความแข็งแกร่งทางด้านจิตใจและความอดทน การตระหนักถึงคุณค่าของครอบครัวและหน้าที่การเลี้ยงดูลูกอย่างใส่ใจเป็นกุญแจสำคัญที่ทำให้การเป็นแม่ในวัยนี้เติมเต็มและมีความสุขอย่างแท้จริง นอกจากนี้ การดูแลสุขภาพกายและใจของแม่หลังคลอดเป็นสิ่งจำเป็นอย่างยิ่ง เพื่อให้สามารถเลี้ยงดูลูกได้อย่างมีประสิทธิภาพและไม่เกิดภาวะซึมเศร้าหลังคลอด การพบแพทย์เพื่อตรวจสุขภาพอย่างสม่ำเสมอและรับคำปรึกษาจากผู้เชี่ยวชาญสามารถช่วยให้แม่มือใหม่รู้สึกอุ่นใจมากขึ้น เรื่องราวนี้ยังสะท้อนให้เห็นถึงความสำคัญของการสนับสนุนจากครอบครัวและสังคมที่เข้าใจและช่วยเหลือแม่มือใหม่ในการปรับตัว ทั้งนี้ การแบ่งปันประสบการณ์ผ่านช่องทางต่างๆ เช่น ชุมชนออนไลน์หรือกลุ่มผู้ป่วย เป็นแหล่งข้อมูลและกำลังใจที่มีคุณค่ามาก สำหรับคุณแม่ที่มีลูกยากหรือเริ่มต้นการตั้งครรภ์ในช่วงอายุมากขึ้น การเตรียมตัวทางด้านร่างกายและจิตใจอย่างรอบด้าน รวมถึงการรับมือกับอุปสรรคต่างๆ ด้วยความรักและความอดทน จะช่วยสร้างความมั่นใจและแรงบันดาลใจในการเลี้ยงดูลูกอย่างมีคุณภาพได้อย่างแท้จริง

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