S2 EP5 WHAT DO YOU PUSH? #fyp #nyc #talk #interview
Many of us struggle with the fear of being truly seen, whether in professional settings or personal life. This fear can hold us back from applying for that next promotion, sharing our authentic selves on social media, or trying something completely new. From my personal experience, pushing beyond these fears requires a conscious commitment to stepping outside of comfort zones every day. One key step is learning to separate your ego from the possible outcomes. Rejection, although uncomfortable, is often part of the innovation and growth process. I found that when I embraced rejection as feedback rather than failure, my ability to push the envelope increased significantly. For instance, during challenging interviews or unfamiliar projects, I reminded myself of my 'portfolio of proof'—all the skills and accomplishments that validate my abilities. This mindset helped me fight impostor syndrome and bolstered my confidence. Being aware of moments when fear arises allows us to confront it directly. For example, when I hesitate to post something vulnerable online or hold back from applying for a leadership role, acknowledging the underlying fear helps me push through it. Over time, this practice develops resilience and opens doors to opportunities I might have missed otherwise. To anyone struggling with similar fears, I encourage you to start small: take one action outside your comfort zone each day, whether it's voicing your opinion or sharing your story. Over time, you’ll build momentum and cultivate courage to push boundaries in every aspect of your life. Remember, growth lies on the other side of fear—pushing the envelope is a continual journey worth embracing.





















