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🐰💬 Emotional intelligence is important, but it must "understand emotions."

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Today, everyone knows that "emotional intelligence" is important for work.

But there are two main reasons why most people still "can't use it."

1️⃣ because I still don't really understand what "emotion" is.

2️⃣ And even in theory, it's hard to deal well with your emotions.

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In general, we use the words * emotion * and * feeling * interchangeably, but psychologically, "emotion" is the interpretation of feelings "caused by the brain's motivation system.

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🔍 1. What is emotion?

In psychology, "emotion" is the interpretation of feelings.

caused by the brain's "motivation system."

Our brains use the information around them.

To translate that feeling into "emotion."

Tell us that - now we're doing well or poorly with what we're meant to be.

Such as

If colleagues compliment your work - that positive feeling is "pride."

But sometimes "emotion" doesn't always come from the situation in front of it.

You might quarrel with a family man in the morning.

And when you get to the office, you get frustrated with your job - and the reason is your personal emotions.

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⚖️ 2. Understand and deal with emotions wisely.

Many people try to "force" bad feelings without understanding it.

But that's a "losing opportunity."

Because "emotion" is the information of inner motivation.

Ignoring it is like driving without looking at a map.

Being too obsessed is like looking at a map but not starting a car.

In the end, you can't go anywhere.

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💨 How to deal with negative emotions consciously

When you feel stressed, worried or angry,

Let's try * * taking a 5-10 minute break, stay with yourself. Take a deep breath.

Instead of enjoying anger, focus on the wind.

As the mood stabilizes, you start to think more clearly.

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And then slowly review what happened today, which events made you feel better or worse? It may not be clear at first, but when you practice often, you can start to "catch the point" of when and why negative emotions started.

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🛠️ Once you get it, "take care of it."

Knowing the cause of bad feelings,

"Plan," solve, not just "rethink."

And don't make decisions when the mood is surging.

Because what looked "cheap" back then

Often seems "unreasonable" when calming down.

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Understand Emotions = Understand Life

Once you understand yourself better,

You will manage unpleasant emotions more easily.

Not a victim of it.

And understand others deeper naturally.

Sounds like maybe a small thing -

But it's the charm that most people don't notice, and it's hard to find people who have this.

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Source: HBR Guide to Emotinal Intelligence Book

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... Read moreความฉลาดทางอารมณ์ (EQ) ไม่ได้หมายถึงแค่การรู้จักและเข้าใจอารมณ์ของตัวเองเท่านั้น แต่ยังรวมถึงการรู้ว่าอารมณ์เหล่านั้นมากจากไหนและส่งผลต่อพฤติกรรมอย่างไร การเข้าใจความแตกต่างระหว่างอารมณ์ (emotion) และความรู้สึก (feeling) ช่วยให้เราตระหนักว่าการตีความความรู้สึกเป็นสิ่งสำคัญ สมองเรามีระบบแรงจูงใจที่ช่วยประมวลผลข้อมูลรอบตัวและสะท้อนออกมาเป็นอารมณ์ เช่น ความภูมิใจเมื่อได้รับคำชม หรือความหงุดหงิดที่เกิดจากอารมณ์ที่ยังไม่ถูกแก้ไขจากเหตุการณ์ส่วนตัว การจัดการอารมณ์เชิงลบอย่างมีสติไม่ใช่การฝืนหรือปิดบังความรู้สึกเหล่านั้น แต่เป็นการหยุดพักและรับรู้มันอย่างจริงจัง เช่น การหยุดพัก 5–10 นาที หายใจลึก ๆ เพื่อนำความสนใจกลับสู่ลมหายใจ ช่วยลดความเครียดและทำให้คุณเริ่มคิดชัดเจนขึ้น จากนั้นจึงทบทวนเหตุการณ์และค้นหาสาเหตุที่แท้จริงของอารมณ์เหล่านั้น การฝึกฝนอย่างต่อเนื่องจะช่วยให้จับจุดเริ่มต้นของความรู้สึกเชิงลบได้ดีขึ้น และเพิ่มความสามารถในการวางแผนแก้ไขอย่างมีสติ นอกจากนี้ การลงมือจัดการกับอารมณ์อย่างมีสติ ยังช่วยป้องกันการตัดสินใจที่ผิดพลาดในช่วงที่อารมณ์รุนแรง โดยการเลือกที่จะไม่ตัดสินใจทันที แต่รอให้ใจเย็นและวิเคราะห์เหตุการณ์อย่างรอบคอบก่อน เมื่อนำวิธีนี้มาใช้ มนุษย์จะไม่ถูกครอบงำโดยอารมณ์ที่ไม่พึงประสงค์ และสามารถสร้างความสัมพันธ์ที่ดีขึ้นกับผู้อื่นได้โดยธรรมชาติ สุดท้าย การเข้าใจอารมณ์เท่ากับการเข้าใจชีวิตอย่างลึกซึ้ง และมันยังเป็นเสน่ห์ส่วนตัวที่ชวนให้ผู้อื่นยอมรับและเชื่อถือ นอกจากนี้ ยังช่วยให้ผู้ประกอบการและคนทำงานสามารถพัฒนาทั้งทักษะอารมณ์และความรับผิดชอบในธุรกิจ ซึ่งเป็นหัวใจสำคัญของความสำเร็จในสนามจริงอย่างแท้จริง

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