Looking for my book people 📚

Looking for my book people 👀📚 What kind of books do you read?

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I liked the first book… but book 2 almost lost me 👀

I liked the first book… I was hooked. Book 2? I’m not even gonna lie… I had to listen to it AND read it just to stay into it. But I didn’t give up. Now I’m on the last book in the series, and I actually want to see how it all comes together. This series really reminded me that: not ev

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“April Read 📖: Learning to Stop Settling in Love”

Just picked up Sis, Don’t Settle by Faith Jenkins and I’m actually excited for this one 👀 I saw someone post about it and said it was a really good read… and y’all already know I’m always down for a book that helps me grow 💭 Lately I’ve been in my “be intentional, don’t settle, know your wort

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You are more than the titles you carry

Sometimes I get so caught up in what I do every day… The roles I carry. The responsibilities. The expectations. And without realizing it, I start to let those things define me. But this reminded me of something I needed to hear— I am more than the titles I hold. More than being a w

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This self-check told me more than I expected

I scored a 45 on this connection-to-self test… and I had to sit with that for a minute. Because it says I have a strong sense of self and worth. And honestly… I’ve been doing the work. But what stood out to me wasn’t just the score— it was realizing that this didn’t happen overnight. The

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Reading this changed how I see being single

Currently reading: Single on Purpose + the workbook 📖 I used to think being single meant something was missing… like I needed to rush into something just to feel “complete.” But this book is shifting that mindset for me. ✨ Being single isn’t a waiting season ✨ It’s a becoming season ✨ I

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Currently Reading: A New Earth + Toxic No More

Slow reading today. I’m currently in the section “The Flowering of Human Consciousness” in A New Earth, and it’s already making me pause and take notes. One idea that stood out to me is that human consciousness is evolving. For a long time, people lived mostly through ego — reacting from fear

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Breaking Destructive Patterns One Book at a Time 📚

Currently reading: Toxic No More Right now I’m in phase 2 of my healing journey. Phase 1 taught me about detachment and understanding my attachment patterns. Now I’m learning how to overcome destructive patterns while practicing the first agreement from The Four Agreements: Be impeccabl

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Why I Stopped Juggling Multiple Books

I love reading. So naturally, I used to juggle multiple books at once. If something new caught my attention, I’d pause one and start another. But I realized something… I wasn’t going deep. I was just bouncing around. Right now, I’m in my attachment season. The Power of Detachment i

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Self-Awareness Is the Real Attachment Work

I used to think my anxiety in relationships was about other people. This chapter reminded me it’s about self-awareness. Noticing my triggers. Understanding my patterns. Challenging the assumptions that fuel insecurity. Healing anxious attachment isn’t about becoming “less emotional.”

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Learning to keep my heart open — wisely.

This book is teaching me something I didn’t expect. The pain we experience in relationships doesn’t mean we’re foolish. It means we were open. It means we were capable of love. For a long time, I thought closing my heart would protect me. Now I’m learning that love isn’t the problem. Un

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Connection Isn’t the Same as Security.

This week’s attachment recap. I’m learning that emotional connection is not the same as emotional security. You can feel close to someone. You can talk for hours. You can feel chemistry. But if they’re not emotionally accessible… If they shut down. If they avoid hard conversations. If

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Emotional Intelligence Starts With Awareness

Noticing what’s happening inside me before reacting to what’s happening around me. This chapter reminded me that growth isn’t about never getting triggered— it’s about slowing down long enough to recognize my emotions and take responsibility for how I respond. Pausing is progress. Awaren

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Learning Myself First (February–March Reads)

Before I try to understand anyone else’s patterns, I’m learning mine. 📘 Anxious Attachment Workbook → understanding my triggers → learning how to self-regulate → choosing security over reassurance 📗 Toxic No More → recognizing unhealthy dynamics → releasing what keeps me stuck → buildi

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Do You Push Through a Book… or DNF It?

Do you give books a fair try just to see what you can learn from them, or do you automatically move them to your DNF stack? I’m currently working my way through this one, and it’s not hitting like her first book — and maybe it’s not supposed to. Sometimes a book meets you where you are, not wh

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Letting the book speak back to me.

Some books you read fast. Others ask you to slow down and listen. This season is about integration, not consumption. One page at a time.

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My February Read

I started it… felt the tension building… then decided this one deserves my full attention. The Housemaid is officially my February read. Slow pages. No rushing. Letting the story unfold the way it’s meant to. February is for getting lost in a book again. No spoilers—just vibes.

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This Prologue Had Me in a Chokehold

When the prologue got you in a chokehold and you’re already on chapter 3. I fear I’m not putting this book down anytime soon 📖👀 — The Housemaid

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Detachment Is My Discipline Right Now

Mastering detachment isn’t about not caring. It’s about choosing peace over panic and consistency over chaos. Let’s see what two months of staying grounded does. ✨📖

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Learning My Attachment Patterns Without Judgment

I took an anxious attachment quiz today and scored 33. Not to label myself — but to understand my patterns. Awareness is where change starts. And I’m choosing to meet this version of me with compassion, not shame. If this resonates, you’re not alone 🤍

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Becoming Through Books