Things I am not loving in my first pregnancy & why

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... Read morePregnancy is an exhilarating yet challenging time, and it's normal to feel overwhelmed. Many expectant mothers experience discomfort from unsolicited opinions about their bodies and birth plans. It's important to prioritize your feelings during this transformative period. For instance, being told 'you’re getting huge' can feel insensitive; instead, consider expressing excitement about the baby’s growth. Furthermore, keep the interactions with others mindful, as they may inadvertently project past traumas onto your experience. Rather than accepting unsolicited advice about labor, trust your instincts and preferences for your birth plan. It's crucial to establish boundaries and communicate openly with friends and family, enabling you to enjoy this journey authentically without additional stress. Remember, every pregnancy is unique, and embracing your personal journey is a beautiful part of becoming a parent. Sharing your feelings and experiences in communities or forums can also provide additional support and solidarity among moms-to-be.

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Olivia T

I’m pregnant again and I’m keeping it secret for as long as I can. I can’t stand people’s opinions and advice. Why can’t people just be happy for you and check up on you and love seeing bump pics and then just shut up?!!

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Sofi✨

The wait til comments will follow into birth🙄 i have my soon to be 6wk old and now i get told “wait til she starts walking and grabbing stuff i so badly want to throw people off a building for not knowing how to shut the fuck up let me enjoy my baby😭

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