You are not your situation!

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signs your situationship is not going anywhere
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15 signs your in a situationship! GET OUT❌🙅🏻‍♀️
If a guy is making you feel less than, leading you on, and not giving you a title he DOESNT LIKE YOU! No man on planet earth is going to give you less than if he likes you. If he’s doing things you see in the image, he’s either using you, or your giving yourself easy access to him and he’s playing
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