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To me who couldn't say "I want to get married"

Not long ago,

The words "I want to get married"

I was embarrassed to speak out.

I feel like I'm being watched desperately.

People might think I'm a heavy person.

I feel like I'm being drawn to worrying about such things.

So I said, "Well, maybe it will become like that."

I've been cheating all along.

But the real intention is,

I wanted to. For a long time.

One day, I decided to stop cheating.

I decided to think about marriage and move on properly.

@ใƒจใ‚คใƒˆใ‚ญYoitokiIt was on that day that I registered with Yoitoki.

I was surprised to try it,

There were many people who felt the same way.

On my profile, I said, "I'm seriously considering it."

There are people who write normally.

It wasn't something to be ashamed of.

I feel relieved.

"I want to get married."

It's a normal wish.

Can I speak ๐ŸŒธ

I want to get married # real _ talk I started my marriage. The real intention of Arasa girls # yoitoki

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