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How to talk to be dating someone we secretly like

1. Talk about what he likes, such as movies, series, games, anime, fiction, try to observe often.

2. Reply to the story that we like often (following the 1st question)

3. Be a good mentor

4. Try to invite to do activities together often.

5. Be yourself. What kind of person we are when inviting to talk is like that (like talking to friends and family).

2025/8/14 Edited to

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