If you have ever felt like a ‘coincidence’ was actually your person reaching out, you’re not crazy. You’re not grief stricken and delusional. You’re paying attention. People will tell you it’s unhealthy. That you’re seeing what you want to see. That they’re gone and that’s it. Don’t listen to those people. Energy cannot be created nor destroyed. That’s not spirituality. That’s science. Which means they are still here. Their energy never left. It just changed form. So if your gut tells you that butterfly, that song, that number, that moment was them. It was. Trust it. They’re still talking. We just have to learn to listen differently.
Grieving the loss of a loved one is deeply personal, and many of us seek comfort in subtle signs that remind us they’re still with us. From my own experience, these signs often come in the form of certain butterflies appearing at unexpected times, songs playing on the radio that hold special meaning, or particular numbers like 11:11 showing up repeatedly. It’s important to remember that these moments aren’t just coincidence — they can be viewed as our loved ones reaching out through energy that never truly disappears. I remember one difficult day when I was overwhelmed with anxiety and sadness, but then a butterfly appeared outside my window—a vibrant monarch, which was always a symbol shared with my mom. Around the same time, a song she loved began playing on the radio, seemingly just for me. These experiences brought an unexpected sense of peace, helping me cope with the emptiness and silence left behind. Science tells us energy changes form but never vanishes, so the idea that those we’ve lost communicate through signs aligns with this principle. Trusting your intuition is crucial; if your gut tells you a butterfly or a certain melody carries your loved one’s message, honor that feeling. Those moments can serve as healing reminders that connections transcend physical presence. Everyone’s grieving journey is unique, and while some may doubt the meaning behind these experiences, it is vital to hold space for whatever brings you solace. Keeping an open heart allows you to listen differently, recognizing that your loved one’s energy is still around you in transformed ways. Whether it’s a song playing on a special anniversary or the sudden appearance of a cherished symbol, embracing these signs may help the grieving process and provide ongoing comfort as you navigate your loss.










































































I feel your pain! They always appear when you least expect it! Usually when I really need it! And the butterflies and hummingbirds 😢 11:11 ❤️