Things men appreciate, but won’t tell you

2025/1/30 Edited to

... Read moreIt's so true what's mentioned about men appreciating the little things, like showing up on time and bringing positive energy to a date! I totally agree, those actions speak volumes. But beyond actions, I've also found that knowing what men like to hear can truly deepen a connection and make them feel incredibly valued. Sometimes, we focus so much on our own feelings or what we think we'd like to hear, we forget to consider what genuinely resonates with them. From my experience, men often appreciate compliments that acknowledge their efforts, skills, and character, rather than just their appearance. While a "you look great" is nice, something more specific and heartfelt can really make their day. For example, if he's done something thoughtful, instead of a generic "thanks," try saying, "I really appreciate how you [specific action], it made me feel [positive emotion]." This shows you noticed and valued his specific effort. I remember once, a guy I was seeing spent ages fixing a shelf for me. Instead of just saying 'thank you,' I told him, 'Wow, you're so handy and patient! I really appreciate you taking the time; it means a lot to me that you helped.' His face just lit up! It wasn't about his looks, but about his capability and kindness. Similarly, if he’s passionate about a hobby, complimenting his dedication or knowledge about it can be a fantastic way to make him feel seen. For instance, "Your passion for [hobby] is really inspiring; you know so much about it!" This taps into what makes him unique and proud. Men also really appreciate it when you acknowledge their intelligence or sense of humor. If he tells a funny joke, a genuine laugh followed by "You always know how to make me smile!" can be far more impactful than a polite chuckle. Or if he shares an insightful thought, letting him know, "That's a really interesting perspective, I hadn't thought of it that way," shows you value his mind. These types of compliments contribute to him feeling 'more confident' in himself and around you, just like the article mentioned about a post-date text. It's not about flattery, but about genuine observation and expressing sincere appreciation. When you notice these qualities and speak them aloud, it creates a positive feedback loop. It encourages him to continue being that thoughtful, capable, or funny person, and it strengthens your bond. Just as we appreciate someone recognizing our 'positive energy,' men too thrive on feeling understood and appreciated for who they are and what they bring to the table. These small verbal affirmations, combined with the actions mentioned in the main article, truly make a 'big difference' in how a guy feels about himself and your connection.

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SnodgrassPower

good advice for younger girls especially.

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Heather Vipond Reese

I snorted when you said "If you didn't have a great time, obviously don't send that" LOL 😭😂

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