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Worse than not having... is... having is like not having.

Don't ask, don't talk, don't explain.

Is unfair and irresponsible to themselves and others.

Oh, my God.

That we see with the eyes, hear with the ears

It's not always certain to be true.

Give others a chance to explain.

Be patient, explain to others.

This is what you can do: sorry.

Unforgiving matters will diminish.

I don't ask + you don't say = aloof

I asked then + you don't say = space.

I asked, + you said = respect.

I want to say + you want to ask = know heart.

I don't ask + but you say = trust.

The name of the Snitchan.

Words and actions will explode.

It's like a natural stream.

No, no, no.

Words and actions are distant.

Like a tree in a dry, withering, stagnant drought.

Not afraid if the person is far away but the heart is close

The fear is... the body is intimate, not close, as far away. Remember, communication is important.

Article credit: Nu Sn Thi Bukes

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