no because why was your assumption immediately that i didn’t know what i was doing

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... Read moreOften in life, people jump to conclusions about our knowledge or skills without fully understanding our background or experience. This can be particularly frustrating when others immediately assume you don’t know what you’re doing, as it disregards your efforts and expertise. From my personal experience, I’ve noticed how comments—sometimes dismissive or critical—can affect confidence. I had moments where I read comments questioning my decisions or abilities, and it took conscious effort to stop taking them personally and instead focus on validating my own competence. One helpful tip is to remember that others' assumptions are often based on limited information. Whether you are starting a new project, sharing a hobby, or demonstrating your skills, it's important to trust yourself and your process. Reading comments or feedback can be informative, but it should not define your self-worth or capability. Additionally, engaging constructively with criticism can lead to growth. However, if comments are purely negative or baseless, learning to filter and not give them undue attention is key. This balance between openness and self-assurance enhances resilience. In summary, the phrase "I have to stop reading comments" resonates with many who feel overwhelmed by negativity online. Embracing your knowledge, ignoring baseless assumptions, and continuing to develop your skills are essential practices in any area of life. It’s a reminder that knowing what you’re doing starts internally, regardless of outside opinions.

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